A guide to woman’s personality
It is a great feeling to be a woman.From the ancient times the woman is the main theme for poets,painters,sculptors,novelists,musicians etc.And they indeed handle it with extreme care.The master pieces of many celebrities have celebrated the glory of women in their
art works.Anything else wouldn’t have been as special,as attractive,as lively ,in its presence ,when compared to a woman.An art work is said to be whole and full with the presence of a woman.
Every woman likes to be
beautiful. .But unfortunately,not everyone are beautiful for they are not to be blamed.Every one is interested in developing one’s personality.But does personality ends with visual appearance & external attire alone..Personality means the way she encounters different situations and stimuli.The meaning of the word cannot be confined to a narrow vision.The way one thinks,her ideas,her thought process,her perception of life,her ambitions,her dreams,goals,her interactionwith the society,And the way she carries herself throughout her life.In fact ,it specifically denotes her psychological signature which means the way her mind works,in the sense it thinks,generates ideas.It is a measure of her IQ(Intelligence Quotient) meaning the level of her intelligence.There are many factors that influence one’s personality..A child is influenced by the mother to a great extent. Father also has a hand in moulding the personality of the girl.Apart from parents,teachers,relatives,neighbours also influence her personality.
Women ,nowadays, are found shining with flying colours. They have a dual responsibility –a home maker and a career woman . But there is a percentage of women who are still confined to the walls of the kitchen..They fear gossips.The positive attitude about oneself is the foundation of a successful personality.Every successful women had to overcome a
lot of difficulties to reach a target.Women should not worry about
people laughing at their wild imagination. They should have a uni mind about their aim and start their run despite of their shortcomings.
“ The more strongly one feels about success,the more decisively she runs for her goalpost.”Women should be aware of their capabilities and strenghths and avoid being obsessed by negative thoughts.
.It is natural to lose confidence at times of crisis,but women should rise up to face the consequences of the crisis.Confidence is such a commodity one can neither buy nor be gifted with.It should be cultivated within oneself.Women should have a burning desire to win.
No body in spared of the negative effect or it is very difficult to convert the feeling of anger into love or politeness.Lord Buddha has said,”Develop no hatred towards anybody,let nobody shall be able to instigate you,make yourself immune to insult and humiliation.””Go to bed with a feeling that you have forgiven those who have insulted or humiliated you during daytime,throw away that enmity and hatred.You will find that you are much relaxed, and it will be much easier for you to get a perfect sleep.” Said Acharya Vinoba Bhave.A Woman can stay young and beautiful when she leads a life full of pleasure,happiness and relaxed coexistence with her fellowbeings.
Women,nowadays, are to discharge a lot of duties.At the same time they want to look beautiful.In the process of beautifying one should maintain her self esteem.There are lot of quotes to explain beauty.One among them are, “Beauty” is the impression which you create about yourself with careful and intelligent planning.You have to discover the ways of putting all your natural assets to work for you.
Dress sense is the next important aspect.A woman should choose a dress that suits her and the situation well.It should be in such a manner that it uplifts her esteem.It should not irritate the eyes of the onlooker.Indian women should dress themselves in such a way as to demand respect.
Conversation is an art and a hallmark of feminine grace and sophistication.The way one speaks also comes under one’s personality.Everybody may not possess a sweet voice.But it can be made so by using kind words,enthusthiastic slang, a sweet smile,politeness etc.Voice can also be improved by developing breathing habits,pranayams etc.Conversing is an art but conversing without hurting one’s heart is a poem.
Being a good homemaker also adds to a woman’s points.Taking care of everyone at home in spite of her job schedules increases her glory.A woman should be a good daughter,wife,daughter-in-law,sister-in-law,bhabhi,mother,sister…..
Elegance is another aspect related to women folk.It describes something which is decent,graceful and serene.Women should not allow people to take advantage of their decency and simplicity,Should not lower themselves to their level at vulnerable situations,should argue with a gentle and mild tone,should not express abehaviour to humiliate or insult somebody.
The final touches of the potrait:
The way one relates with people,the way she projects herself to the society,matters a lot which ultimately decides whether she is a winner or a loser.
A Woman should avoid self-praise and should screw her head tightly on her shoulders as she ascends on the ladder of success and should remain soft and polite as far as possible. A woman should win with her hands down.
The fundamental quality of a lovable personality is to give due respect,love and care to all persons who come in contact and not expecting anything in return.A person with awarm heart should never develop the fault-finding trait.If you are wrong admit it gracefully.
Life matures only those who are ready to change the bad habits of their behaviour without any ifs and buts.
Many a time silence is the best policy so that one need not regret later
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