This abstract is for all my fellow readers and writers of Shvoong. In order to succeed, you have got to want and want very badly indeed, your well-chosen objective. Your sheer tenacity will drive and push you to the top. The right sort of ambition, an ambition of a challenging nature is truly a tremendous spur to achievement. The man who does not want badly enough to do a thing, will make any number of excuses for not doing it. Hardships and obstacles are not meant to be evaded, but to be mastered. Resist and conquer all sorts of hardships and it will grow into a habit and become second nature to you. Never allow yourself to think that any task is beyond you and any position is too high. All is possible to him that believeth. You have to toil hard, lift the load, rack your brains and sweat it out to secure a worthy goal. You cannot expect success without struggle or competition. We can find success coming before work only in the dictionary. In real life, it invariably follows hard and imaginative toil. There is always the battle to be fought before victory is won. Success is not a matter of luck or even genius. It depends entirely on adequate preparation, able execution, persistence and will power. Self-confidence, bold action, vibrating enthusiasm, courage, resoluteness, perseverance and, above all, hope and positive attitude constitute the foundation of your success and happiness. So, You can decide your destiny and fashion your fate by your own efforts, industry and hard work. You can get your girl or man, achieve your goal and capture your coveted objective by only daring and doing!