Marriage without
children is not complete.
Everyone wants to have a child. However, sometimes it happens that a woman
or a man does not want or cannot have a child.
At first, we must take into account whether a woman wants a child or does not. For all I care I believe that almost every woman wants a child. It does not matter whether she is married or not. To be accurate, every growing girl, and a woman thinks about a child. Little girls are playing with dolls thinking these dolls are their
children. They feed them, dress, comb, wash, and even sing lullabies. Then when they become young women they still think about the own child. Sometimes it happens that a young woman is pregnancy with a young man who is not aware to the responsibility of being a father. This is a great disappointment for this young woman, and after-effects she must bring up her child on her own account. Repeatedly the young boys promised
marriage, but those are airy promises, and these young boys have not an atom of common sense. When two people want to be together, they take a wedding. They think about their future. They want to have a house, a car, nice furniture, a good job, and a child, of course.
According to me, marriage without children is not complete. Children are needed to the proper development of marriage. When married couple has not children they begin to quarrel, have pretences about the smallest details. They have more time for each other but do not keep the marriage longer. However, not always that situation has a place. At first the two who are together have common interests, but have not children, or inversely. To me having children is the most important thing in life. These who have not children say that God wills it so. The same say people who have more than two children. I must be admitted than having children not always is easy. Children need to take care, need good atmosphere at hone to good evolution. They also need an education, which parents have to assure them. If the family is better off, the children will have better education. The better family is the better children are.
First, mother and father should respect each other, and then children will be better. Parents demand respect from their children, but children ought to respect parents too.
It is very hard to bring up good, polite, and wise young people. Therefore, I think that some people should not have children. For example, alcoholics, drug addicts, and seeing red. At any rate, I believe that marriage without children is not complete.
I know many married couple who cannot or do not want to have children from different reasons. Bu I understand these who cannot, but I do not understand these who do not want. For all women care, it should be their natural mother’s instinct. After all, they extinguish it themselves because of many reasons. Sometimes it is a good job, sometimes some undefined fear. Though being mother is not any abnormal. It beats me why women decided to live without children. For all that, I think they like children and would like to have them. Nevertheless, repeatedly it is too late. What will they do when they become old?