Clearly there are no rules, only what lovers have known since Antony
and Cleopatra: "Pay attention, be kind, and be loving". But the
following Top Ten List might be a useful reminder! Enjoy!1.
Guys: Great sex starts in the kitchen! Wash the dishes, take out the
trash, give her a break, let her know she''s appreciated. Romance and
exhaustion do not mix -- think about it! (Besides, standing there, side
by side, washing and drying those dishes, hands could get to roamin''
and motors could get to tickin'' ...the most amazing things do happen!)2.
Gals: Tell that old fool just exactly what you''ve been waiting for!
Most males are notoriously poor mind readers, they just don''t "get it".
So tell him! "A little softer" or "let me show you" goes much further
than, "How come you never know what I want?"3. Guys: Take time!
Sex is about fun, relaxation, laughter and
love -- this is not a
competition or a 50-yard dash to the finish line! Start slow, let it
build, then finish strong. A glass of wine, maybe some music, a
backrub, even a few minutes of silence can shift the mood and make
things verrrry interesting!!4. Gals: Make Time! How often does
sex happen last thing at night, with two exhausted people trying to
find each other in the dark? Or, first thing in the morning, half
asleep, with bad breath? If sex is important, why not treat it like
getting your haircut or picking the kids up after school? In other
words, schedule time, put it on the calendar and treat it as a key part
of keeping yourself and the family running smoothly.5. Guys:
Think about your 4th
date with the
woman you love, after you were well
acquainted but everything still felt new and exciting. Remember
thinking about it, scheduling it, making dinner reservations? Remember
being on time? Did you bring flowers, maybe plan something romantic or
special? Remember taking a shower and using cologne? Well, guess what
-- she''s still special and she''s still waiting!6. Gals: If you
want great sex, seduce him! This is not rocket science! Most guys are
sooooo easy. They''re "visual" -- show him what he likes. They''re easily
flattered -- whisper what he wants to hear. Touch him right there, or
if you prefer, right THERE!!! Tease him, just don''t be a tease.7.
Guys: Surprise her. Women love that. And, the beauty is, almost
anything will work. Surprise her with flowers, with a card, get a
baby-sitter for the evening, put a note on the windshield of her car.
Even surprise her by cleaning the bathroom! Almost anything will work,
just be kind, be gentle, and put a little thought into it.8.
Gals: With all the talk about "size", remember that a man''s biggest sex
organ is his imagination -- so use your own! Everyone has
fantasies --
some romantic, some kinky, maybe even a few that are slightly dangerous
or outrageous. What are yours? And, what are his? Why not play
dress-up? Why not go on a date with someone "new"?9. Guys: I
just told the gals you have a great imagination -- don''t make me a
liar! Use it! How long has it been since you had sex in the back seat
of a Ford? Would she enjoy a date with a spy? Being seduced by a
plumber or "the cable guy"? Is your shower big enough for two? Ever
done it at the office -- how about her office?10. Gals: Take
time to add variety and spice with tasteful magazines, toys,
movies and
beautiful lingerie. For most people (including men) pornography quickly
turns into a turn-off, but a little satin and lace, maybe some sensual
pictures or using common household items in a whole new way can sure
add delight to the old routine. Explore, experiment, lock the bedroom
door and play some brand new games!
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