Remember best moment enjoyed with the partner is positive signal of attraction to prolong relation.? Anger infuriates; is
fire only cool approach can extinguish.? Extra marital life is curse to married life.?
There is no one else to come to assist if brought would worsen further.
So wife and husband together need to console each other and prepare for
next challenge.? There is no house where difference of opinions
are not there but adjusting, accommodating and making understand the
good and bad part will help. Avoid arguments as escalates situation and
never helps. Patience is water to fire.? Sexual activities are
best jokes, games, attraction, consolation, affection, rejuvenation,
temporary medication from depression and etc. So of use this gifted
source prepares for next challenge.? Birth of child conveys
purpose of the family so don''t delay. Child bring purpose to live.
Adoption of child too serves purpose for issue-less family. Loneliness
is curse can drive to wrong situation; business and involvement in
daily affairs can evade this situation.Third stage of married
life is middle age and role is strengthening family. Self interest is
now least the only interest is how to establish the family as strong.
Children and necessities rule the house and parents fulfill rightful
wants. Children are now grown and the
responsibility is to train them
to survive. All efforts are to give best training learnt from own
parents. Children learn by experiences and observations of parents
activities. For knowledge to children, parents give good education as
much as possible to see their children improving to live in the world.
From status of wife and husband they are now mother and father. Sexual
activity is not as frequent as before now objective is to extinguish
craving whenever exists. Couples are now matured Mother and Father.
Father''s responsibility is arranging for needs and mother''s is to
utilize for home in planned way. Routine responsibility and failures
sometime become tedious to frustrate both, results desperation to
damage family. Past experiences and success consoles to continue
responsibilities.? Sex rejuvenates their relation and
understanding to perform responsibilities though the desire is not as
strong as in the young age.? Sharing daily the bad/good activities to seek guidance is way to involve and invite partner to the responsibilities.? Sparing time for own leisure revives to undertake next day responsibility.? For better children need to be better parents.? Amusing and broadmindedness is for beautiful environment.Fourth
stage of married life is old age when no one is left except the old
memories and the life partner. Old age is the recap of all past
experiences when remember the best and worst incidences of life to
repent and enjoy. Success of children gives satisfaction that children
were well cared. The loneliness now is for review past, wish somebody
to share with. Children too head off to perform their own
responsibilities with the experiences and knowledge gained during stay
with mother and father. Visit of children is rare and only during
family celebrations or holidays. Some times to stay content with their
greeting cards or telephone calls. This is the time when oldies need
support of each other to hang on rest of the life. The real affection
even without sex makes them as happy as the past. A memory of their
marriage and hang on for long becomes purposeful instrument of
attachment. Longer the relation gives stronger affection and support
for old life.? Past experiences contribute to give good and bad relation in old age.? Old life is of total dependence so is the responsibility of children to take care as parents did to them.? Old is gold; share experiences with needy to improve social behavior.? Partner''s bad experiences during past should not become an issue to blame. It hurts old age.?
Old age is an age of irritation, troublesome and egoism due to
insbad health, weakening memory, and fear to leave earth may
not be liked by youthful, need to realize that this is their future so
respect them.Life of wife and husband is full of
responsibilities; to conduct this responsibility their togetherness is
essential. Sexual craving and pleasure is enticement to enter and carry
the married responsibilities. Carrying responsibilities is by joining
hands. Meaning of individual in married life is one family. Before
thinking self thinking the family is married life.