Most of the questions asked to sexual health experts are about men''s
early ejaculations and
women''s orgasm troubles.
When you read this you
may say: It''s normal, if man is coming off quickly, woman couldn''t have
an orgasm! But if you really think for a few seconds, surprisingly, you
won''t see any relation between these two events. Because, a man if he
is not a boor, will prepare his woman to reach her orgasm before his
ejaculation.The other highly popular question is about the penis
size! After all that porn movies many people are really confused. How
and where to find such a prominent organ? What is the normal size? How
thick and long can be the biggest? How small is acceptable for
lovemaking?Every man''s genital is different as his finger print
and the role of the penis size in a happy and successful sexual
relationship is not such important. At least you don''t have to be such
stupid to pay sack full money to programs, drugs or advice for making
it bigger! Even with a huge organ a man''s chance is very limited to
make her achieve an orgasm if he is not a good
lover and doesn''t know
proper sex techniques, most probably he will cause pain instead of
pleasure.Even a man who has a miniscule dick may be a perfect
lover! The only way is to learn how to make better love, how to be a
better partner, instead of being paranoiacly distressed. This is normal
and this is your body, love it and try to use it more creatively and
with more love. Kiss and caress every part of your partner''s body for
long time, arouse her enough, and go down and give her a nice oral
love... until she reaches the climax.Believe me, every woman
loves and prefers such a talented lover in the place of a big dick
entering a few times into your vagina before spurting out and then
sleeping in his side as nothing happened! Naturally!Having a
small organ is not a guilt, a crime, if he knows his body and has
developed many better solutions he is absolutely a CLEVER man and a
perfect lover!In regard to early ejaculations... This, also, is
not a crime and if the man has not an organic disorder, may be
corrected with some effort. But many men, instead of paying attention
to their situation, act like early coming off doesn''t make any
difference in their sex life! Which may be true!Actually you may
consider the natural disharmony between two genders. Men, by their
nature, want to thrust into a hole when aroused and squirt in, that''s
all! But woman needs a prior preparation, a foreplay of at least 10-15
minutes to be concentrated and ready for insertion.One woman
likes this
position, another may choose that position, many women
request clitoris stimulation besides men''s thrusting... Many fatiguing
services asked from men! And furthermore, if a serious and passionate
relationship doesn''t exist between partners, men are really exhausted
in the bed. Is a natural error, an innate lack of harmony exists
between men and women?Let see some different type of early comers:Type
A: The worst. He doesn''t even know he is an early comer. When he likes,
he takes the woman under him and ejaculates. He doesn''t care anything
else! For the woman''s orgasm? What is that? He hasn''t heard anything
about woman''s orgasm!Type B: He knows about woman''s orgasm but
act like he doesn''t know. Same of the Type A, he pulls the woman under
and he comes off, the only difference, if by mistake or pain, woman
makes a weak sound like "ah" he will suppose she reached an orgasm but
for his comfort, he will never ask her the truth!Type C: He
knows his disorder, he is sad and wants to visit a doctor but he is
shamed or can''t find the time to go! As a foreplay he kiss and caress
her a little but he can''t wait and comes off. Sometimes he can''t even
find times to thrust his dick into her. He is sad but life goes on!