Its a book about relations, as we make our spiritual quest with the
clues and the resources life gives us. One of these clues
is the
people who like us the way we are.In their presence we come to discover who we are and get the strength to be it in those favorable circumstances.We need people who like us the way we are so we can unfold and open ourselves up to that person.This makes it possible to grow and develop to get rid of some things we are and to
change along lines we find we have a natural bent for. We need people who like us the way we are so we can become different from what we are. And the beauty here is that as we change, the people who like us the way we are like us just as much, or more, than before.