Why Won''t the Law of Attraction Work For Me?
If you''ve tried using the Law of Attraction and have failed to
manifest what you want, then rest assured that you are not alone.
Many thousands of people have given up far too quickly once they''ve
decided that it doesn''t work for them.
But why doesn''t it work for them? And why doesn''t it work for you?
The truth of the matter is - you are using the Law of Attraction in
every single moment. Are you consciously choosing
thoughts in order
to manipulate future events and circumstances? Or are you of the
opinion that the thoughts in your mind are random and cannot be
controlled?
It takes work, it takes persistence and it takes real determination
to change your habitual thoughts. It is not impossible and it is
something that every single person can do regardless of your
education and upbringing.
In my opinion, there are three killer reasons why people tend to
"fail" at using the Law of Attraction:
They used thoughts instead of emotions - It is not your thoughts
that have the attraction power, it is your emotions. The universe
does not hear your words nor does it see your pictures, but it does
respond to your vibration. Emotions are what emit vibrations. After
watching movies like "The Secret" some people misinterpreted the
message and felt that if they
Thought about something for long
enough then it would manifest.
This would be the case if they mixed their thoughts with emotion
and become emotionally involved with their
desire.
Here''s an example... When I was younger, I was terrified of spiders -
every time I saw one my heart would beat faster and I would feel
the feelings of being scared and afraid. Looking back at the
situation now, I can clearly see how I kept on attracting spiders
into my life! I was putting great amounts of emotion into something
that I didn''t want causing them to come into my life experience
very frequently. Since switching my thoughts and not giving them
any attention, I very rarely see them.
They don''t want their desire enough - There are those people who do
understand what they have to do, but they are unable to
focusenough time and attention onto their desires. Why? Because they
don''t care about it enough! You may hear someone say "I want a
million dollars" but when you ask that person why they want a
million dollars they can only give you a few answers... "So I won''t
ever have to worry again," or "So I can buy a big home". These
reasons are perfectly fine, but they haven''t given the whole
scenario enough thought - what exactly are they going to spend the
money on? By working out the details you become more emotionally
attached and invoke more emotional energy.
Took score too soon - Every time you say "Where''s my stuff?" what
message do you think you''re putting out to the universe? Not one of
having or expectation that''s for sure! Do whatever you need to do
to prevent yourself from taking score and seeing all of your
"stuff". You need to be so confident that you will achieve your
desire that you expect it to come to you. There is no taking score
required - ever! From this day forward make the firm decision that
you will never take score of your current situation... that type of
thinking is simply living in the past and it does not serve you.
So what can you do immediately to start bringing your desires home?
Find a private area that you can spend 20-30 minutes alone every
day without being disturbed and use that time to simply relax. Do
not play any music, or watch any television. Focus solely on
yourself and quiet your mind. Make sure you close your eyes and
start to visualize yoady here.
Imagine that it has happened right now, and feel what you would
feel had it happened. The more excited and worked up you can get,
the better.
I find it best to focus on a maximum of 3 desires at a time. Spend
the first 10 minutes focusing entirely on that first desire. Don''t
drift away from the thoughts, stay with it. Keep living it, and
milk the feelings out of every thought you can conjure! What you
will find is that the longer you focus your attention on your
desire, the more ideas and emotions you will invoke.
In as little as 17 seconds, a like minded thought is being hurled
into your mind. So by focusing just a little bit of time on your
desire, the Law of Attraction will yield to you some fantastic
like-minded thoughts and ideas.
Once you''ve completed this daily routine, go on with your normal
life and do not give anything negative any of your attention, the
more positive you remain the quicker your manifestations will
occur. But remember ... DO NOT TAKE SCORE.
And that is it, now you must "know" that you''ve done all the work
that is required.
Everything else will fall into place for you, you''ll be inspired to
do something or you''ll meet someone at the perfect time that can
help bring about your desires. Your work is done for that day, now
rinse and repeat. Before long, you won''t even remember the days
when you weren''t in control of your life!
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