Before actually
being married, most of us, if not all, have already been to other people''s weddings. And we know of the vows that we are going to make if ever we do get married ourselves. So what''s up with the divorces? I know that sometimes being married brings about too many discoveries...and we are lucky if we like half of what we
discover. But if not, didn''t we vow to stay with our spouse for better or for worse? And I''m also certain that it''s not only us who discover the negative side of our
spouses, they too, are overwhelmed by what they discover about us. We just have to think that no one is perfect. So long as our spouses are not abusive, there really is no need to obssess over their flaws. Remember, we love them. So we ought to excuse them from their weaknesses. Just love them through it all.