I feel angry and sad to watch the kind of
discriminations I experience in life and learn from my dear ones. Be it the office
or home I get mad seeing how humans can play games hypocritically just to believe that they are perfect. Typical of an Indian society, lesser in terms for me, I find how In-laws tactfully force their daughter-in-laws to do tasks that they are always on their feet and let their sons turn our to be the most lazy brats. Don’t they realize that they may also have daughters and that their daughter-in-law also is a human who tires? Yet she lives up to keep everyone happy, but ironically she is not appreciated then. They also do not understand that they are making their son’s personality go bizarre. I feel sad to have been bearing this since months yet get no respite from the routine taunts and much expected no support from my husband. It may sound weird to the readers that I write what I feel but I want all Indian daughter-in-laws to become smarter and bolder to face such situations. Coming from a small town, however capable one may be the big city stalwarts are biased against them. Just to quote small incidence, where I felt agitated but controlled it to become obvious. It is so difficult to keep tolerating this
discrimination and injustice with the fear that I may loose my goodwill. But are we being honest to ourselves and not hypocrites just to let it go on. Students from small towns are exploited to work more and get less recognition and benefits as compared to the biggies. If anyone’s soul does not get inflamed by this article he/she is a pimp. Even I cannot do much except express my anger (which all asks me to hide and avoid) and become the black sheep. In wonder, why am asked to jus cool down? I think only experiences in time and prayers can help some to become bold to fight it our diplomatically and give some lessons to the people who encourage such
discriminations.