A young boy sat under a tree, staring emotionless at the sky. He sometimes took a glance at his examination result slip, which he had held for the past 2 hours. Frustrated with his result, the young boy was clueless on how to tell this to his parents. He worked so hard for this examination but the result was just unacceptable for him. Getting “C” for most of his subjects, he had no courage to confront his parents, especially his father. Suddenly, he saw a small bird flew across his view. He amazed by the fact that birds can fly freely in the sky. He wished he could do the same thing, having absolute freedom, without wasting his time thinking about his parents and the people around him. He knew that his parents will be extremely upset with his result. He started to cry and suddenly the word “suicide” came to his mind. This is one of the common cases which happened among young children nowadays. Being too young and having immature thinking, the best way to overcome problems for them is suicide. The same thing also happened to teenagers and adults. Why such thing does happen? Have they lost their normal way of thinking? This is a serious problem nowadays especially in modern countries. What will happen in the future if the young generation has such awkward way of settling problems? Suicide is absolutely not a wise way to solve a problem or running away from a problem. Bear in mind, suicidal makes thing worse, it brings long term trauma to the people around you, specially your own family. It also brings discomfort feelings to the society. It is a disgrace action to all religious around the world. There are numbers of solution and there are people out there who are willing to help. Studies done by Mayo Foundation for Medical Education and Research in United States of America, found out that suicidal among teenagers between 15 to 24 years old did not really exposed in the early 90’s. However, an increase started to show up in 2000, with 132, 000 suicidal cases around the world. The identified reasons: stress, trauma, frustration, depression and isolation.
The failure of parents to monitor the physical and mental growth of their children is also considered as a cause to suicidal problem. Researchers also found out that social, cultures and economical changes can also lead to self depression problem among youngsters. Besides that, blaming educational system is not going to help. Although numerous suicidal cases caused by self educational failure: failure in studies. Below are the identified factors that causes suicidal among youngsters: Depression. (Due to working stress, love, etc) Isolation. (Being isolated from the society) Alcohol or drug. Family problem. (Parents’ divorce) Failure in studies. Personality problem. Family histories. Past time memories. (Abuse, molest, etc) Influenced by unnecessary resources. (Friend, Internet, etc) These are some of the symptoms towards suicide: Personality changes. Listening to voices and hallucinating. Acting weird. (Loves to talk about death and desires to die) Avoiding social interaction. (Loves to be alone) Changes in daily life routine. Repeatedly do life threatening actions. Therefore, actions should be taken seriously: Parents are advice to be more understanding towards their children. Be more considerate towards your expectation. Learn more about their ability. Do not let anger take over you when try do deal with someone who let you down. Always give positive critics to the person who needs it. The society should be more considerable and aware towards the suicidal issues. Appreciate the people around you. Always think about your future and your love ones’ future. Keep up good relationship between you and your family. Always refer to your religious thoughts.