REASON #2: THEY''''RE BLIND AND ARROGANT
In short, many smart guys refuse to accept that a good, solid, workable
answer could come from someone "dumber" than them, so they discount any
idea that comes from an "obviously less intelligent person" before
trying it.
Let me ask you a question:
If you were going to be walking across Africa on foot, would you rather
have your guide be the guy on this planet with the highest I.Q., or a
caveman who lived a million years ago that had an I.Q. of about 50...
but who grew up being chased by lions and all kinds of animals that
wanted to eat him all his life?
It''''s an interesting question.
Now, hopefully you''''d like to have the guide who isn''''t the smartest guy
around... but who has escaped from many, many dangerous situations with
deadly animals...
But now let me ask you:
If you''''d like to learn how to be more successful with women and dating,
would you take advice from a guy who isn''''t very intelligent, but who
knows how to attract women ?
There''''s something about being smart that makes some guys unwilling to
accept input, ideas, or instruction from anyone who isn''''t either as
smart or smarter than them.
Well, any SMART GUY can see the folly in this particular approach... once it''''s examined closely.
If you''''ve been making this mistake, then you need to STOP IT. Stop being an arrogant bastard, and open your eyes.
Look around.
Learn from some "dumb" guys... and let them teach you how to get what you REALLY want.
REASON #3: POOR
SOCIAL SKILLS It BLOWS MY MIND how many smart guys I meet that just don''''t GET IT when it comes to basic social skills.
It''''s as if they have logically reasoned that social skills are for
lower beings who need to play games... and not worth the time it would
take to learn them.
In fact, I believe that there are a lot of smart guys running around
this planet who don''''t even have "social skills" and "be a cool guy that
people like" in their "MENTAL MODEL" of what it could possibly take to
be successful with women and dating.
Social skills are just that... SKILLS.
They''''re not social INFORMATION.
They''''re not social THEORIES.
They''''re social SKILLS.
And you don''''t get them by THINKING about them. You get them by GETTING them.
Excellent social skills are the foundation for good communication with
other humans... and if you don''''t have good social skills, you
dramatically lower your chances for success with women.
REASON #4: THEY PSYCH THEMSELVES OUT
Smart guys do something that fascinates the hell out of me...
They come up with all the reasons why everything WON''''T WORK when it comes to women and dating.
They actually figure out why what they would like to do will probably fail...
They use their amazing creative imaginations to imagine all kinds of
horrible pictures and scenes... and then they use those imaginary
outcomes to create negative emotions... which ultimately stop them from
having success with women and dating.
THEY DON''''T EVEN TRY.
Now, if you''''ve thought something through and come up with a good reason why it would fail, it makes sense to not do it, right?
I mean, why would you want to do things that are going to fail?
It''''s sound logic, but HORRIBLE thinking when it comes to the REAL WORLD... and success with women.
Because smart guys don''''t UNDERSTAND women, and they don''''t UNDERSTAND
what it takes to be successful with women, they are working with bad
figures. They''''re wrong before they even start figuring!
Using your mind to come up with all the reasons why things won''''t work in this area of your life leads to ULTIMATE FAILURE.
You must learn to overcome this habit if you have it.
REASON #5: THEY SEEK ONLY "INFORMATIONAL SOLUTIONS"
What does a smart guy do when he runs into a problem... or he needs to figure something out?
He looks for INFORMATION to help him solve the pro