Two types of love: - absolute: He is to love one as it is. -- Conditional: It is to love one also wants to be.
And differentiate between the act and the perpetrator makes love Stuardo ball of the act and not the actor, love and skill, you gain achieved.
Three conditions for happiness marital:
1 - met four aspects of human life: (spiritual - Social - mental - psychological).
2 - happiness precious commodity require effort and sacrifices you are responsible for them.
3 - if we want change in others must begin to change ourselves.
How to change and change for the better and Akek:
Use exercise 14x5x3 to change the self: Write (I love ......... love me and are) and verbal and the first reaction of risk in whatever you write this response, and repeated it 15 times for 14 days.
Practical ways to earn your wife:
-- I loved absolutely love and assured her that.
-- I hear a woman as the most important for you and you''re proud of them and could not bear parting. And this is what we feel safe.
-- Everyone needs to hear from him and understood and therefore Be a good listener for women and attentively to them.
-- If the wife does not feel beauty and tenderness and femininity, pride and self-praise and more praise them and lift morale.
-- No matter how strong women inside a hidden appeal for the protection of men and women thin fast fracture and accompanied by a respected and not exposed to humiliation.
-- Make solving problems through dialogue based on key rules: 1 - accurately disclose your feelings.
2 - Hearing listening to the other party. 3 - accept the feelings and felt the second party.
-- Avoid the seven deadly in the marital relationship: 1 - authoritarianism. 2 - left and scepticism. 3 - Althbit. 4 - severe jealousy. 5 - and palliative complaint. 6 - addiction to work. 7 - wounded feelings.
-- Avoid doubts If not been questioned, if it was clear by your wife tell her frankly.
-- Sincere supplication to God Almighty.
In the bedroom:
-- Coordinated with your wife and how to arrange furniture and lighting and fragrant.
-- Make a safe and comfortable.
-- Do not discuss anything negative inside the room.
-- Make sure materiel temperature in the room.
-- Ham with the poetic and romantic themes.
-- I know that women express the opposite sex love men.
Attract the attention and loving wife:
-- Contact by the fact that you died.
-- Give leave for work at home one day.
-- New day income.
-- Buy a new dress.
-- Write a letter romantic and put in place deems the morning.
-- Midhat front of others.
Who succeed in their marital lives of three pillars:
1 - knowledge. 2 - work. 3 - patience.
There are several things must be familiar to succeed in married life:
1 - your duties and legitimate rights first and then according to customs II.
2 - manage financially and technically the home.
3 - the art of dealing with the wife''s psychological.
4 - raising children.
5 - psychological sexual relationship.
6 - Arts Department and dealing.