The book says that men are after women who exude self confidence, who can stand on their own and who don't depend on
their men to be happy.Men are more likely to be attracted to women when they don't call them.It should be them who should track you down. It also says that you should not go under the sack on your first date.Act mysterious.They don't judge you by what you have but how you manage what you have.They don't marry helpless little girls, instead they like women who can stand on their own