Why do we even bother?
What is this? What’s the sense? How does this entire mumble jumble benefit
me? No wonder when you ask a male if he would prefer being a
female there is so much uproar. This is the response of an average everyday guy, in a deep voice of course. “who me?” Never! You must be crazy or stupid or from another planet. Women just have too many “issues” going on. Anyway, no, no, no, no.” So everything going on in an individual’s life is far more challenging if you are a female. Therefore, intimate relationships with the opposite sex are no exception.
Generally, women love close to unconditionally, we pamper, we put our men before ourselves most times, we forgive over and over too many times, we cook, even when we can’t cook so well and we take all the dirt that men dish to us ever so often. And for what? Arguments that stem from unnecessary jealousy, being overly suspicious, not very understanding, not being able to relate but yet able to accuse for no reason whatsoever. Now I’m not saying some men don’t try to do what we do naturally. I’m saying enough don’t. Then they want to control what you do and how you live. Perfect example: “Who’s that you’re talking to on the phone?” Stop! What is this CSI: Miami? If we tried that you wouldn’t hear the end of it. Furthermore we are not interested in playing detectives.
Living as a female is just no ordinary deal. Then there are so many differences when it comes to understanding concepts that are supposed to be the viewed the same way whether it is from a male or a female’s perspective. Take into consideration for a minute the following definitions for a few terms according to
females versus males respectively.
Commitment – female: A desire to get married and raise a family. male: Not trying to pick up other women while out with one’s girlfriend.
Vulnerable- female: fully opening up one’s self emotionally to another. male: Playing football without a helmet.
Thingy – female: Any part under a car’s hood. male: The strap fastener on a woman’s bra. We could go on and on. Anyway whether you want to admit it or not, females are here to spice up life, we are here to accommodate male inconsistencies and their insufficiencies as well as their egotistical behavior overall. I’m not going to totally hate on them because truth is when you find one who can balance the curses of life you’re in for a good ride. So we may ask ourselves from to time why do we even bother and may find a different answer everyday.
Nevertheless, females know undoubtedly that it is hard sometimes to let go and get over and that is if there is a lot of good in that man and that is one of the reasons why we bother. We also bother because we need you. Did I just say need you….oh well. Yes we need you, for various reasons of course. furthermore, the majorities of us females aren’t prepared and would hate to see more of you handsome fellows dating and marrying each other. so we choose to bother. To our male counterparts, don’t give up when you meet a female who has similar traits to the males described in this article, keep searching and be diligent because we wouldn’t want you to give up on being a male. There aren’t enough of you already. We’ve lost too many to sex changes, prisons, and violence. Be a man and be proud.