the rules or how to capture the heart of the Ideal man.
The books deals with the doctrine of "how to be hard to get". How to capture the heart of the man until he will offer a longing proposal. First the women should see herself as a once in life time creation, which meens she has to act completly nonchalant, not to presue, certanily not conect, not to make appointments, But to be light as a butterfly so the man will make an affort to reach for her..
In Addition to this tactic the woman should add obstacles on the way, If he wants to meet her, he should initiat it himself, plan it carfuly and make a date several days ahead, pick her up from her house, and in general act like a true gentelman.
The rules about phone conversations are non less stiffer, the conversations should be short and funny, the woman allways has to finish conversation first after a few minutes, saying she has lots of things to do.
What to do in the first date? first before the date she has to busy, and not bothered or obssed. She has to do plesent activity like a relaxing bath or sports activity.
In the first date and the second she has be honest but mysterious, hows thats done? the woman doesnt expose deatails from her soul, but only reviles informatives and meaningful deatails.
The dates should allways be finished by the woman, but still nicely.
How will the woman knows if he`s truely inlove with her? if he doesnt buy her a romantic gift for her birthday, she should stop meeting him, even if the present is worth thousands Dollars, if the present is Practical and not romantic the advice is to breakup.
Between the shites Issue should be takken slow, and not to jump ahead to the bed. like the rest of the relationship the woman should let the man lead the way. There`s no reason to try and change him, although ther are some little habbits that can be changed, but heavy habbits like alcoholszm and Claptomania are useless to fight.
Summing up the book the advice is just to Go Out, look in your best, know to show your advanteges and to make the best of them, and to catc the ones who wants to catch you.