Life is a bag full of ‘flowers and thorns’. Marriage adds to each of them depending on one’s destiny. If you have an understanding partner the numbers of flowers increase and vice versa.
Love and money from one’s partner are obvious but understanding is all ‘your luck’. I may have the first two but not the last and the most important one. I fell dejected and lonely even after 3 years of marriage. Actually we all are born lonely die lonely. It’s the life wherein we make relations and live with them. But I am alone even when I have a family.
I accepted this fact and lived with it. Unfortunately, something even worse happened a day ago. I am shocked as I did not expect this from my partner. He is being influenced by his family and parents against me. He abuses me and misunderstands me at all times. Now it’s on the professional front. I simply cannot gauge his intentions and of course his family’s. I had though that no one could affect out relations and I was proud of it. But now I am shaken and have become short of words. I can never ever trust him in the future and his family, as well. Life is hell these days. Instead of listening to me and supporting me in my career plans he and his family are ‘my enemies’. From day 1 that I enrolled for my studies I have only lived with their apathy and unsupportive attitude. Now they want money from me. Typical of their caste!
I feel sorry for my mother-in-law and can often relate to her. I only talk to her, as little as I do and none to anyone else. Yes, I know I have to earn now but I am bound with my studies till July.
Life seems impossible and marriage a curse. My partner wants me to quit the relationship and so do, I. but the faces of my mothers in Lucknow and Mumbai stop me to do so. Maybe once I get a well-paid job, I may quit him finally. Men like him should never marry and be confined to their family. This attitude makes him uneligible to become a father.
THIS IS MARRIAGE FOR ME!
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