In this chapter we will discuss about the behavior of children in their everyday lives. A variety of children's behavior often encountered. Some are quiet, some are naughty, some are passive and some are active.
It can not be separated from parents who gave birth to her, both in terms of his body and persifatannya.
As parents when we see children in terms of nature and we must not let the wrong behavior in the child's reading behavior. All good behavior and temperament characteristics of children was not pure any mishmash.
Now if we conclude that the behavior of the children's A bad it's not necessarily true. Although
we see that the behavior of the children is due to the influence of the
environment, it was also no excuse to say that the boy's bad behavior. What is the reason? That is because the child can not differentiate between good and bad. In contrast to adults who are able to differentiate between good and bad.
So the question we as parents is how do mensikapi the above.
We as parents must also have experienced childhood, had been a child. We should better understand how mensikapinya.
we must understand as a parent or adult is that we must have the
properties and behavior are good and bad, like it or not these
properties will be reduced to a child. So we have to pick and choose.
This is where our role as parents is the child's first teacher, adopted by the child first. So we must strive to reduce the nature and bad behavior, although we can not be 100%. For the public what is heard, seen and felt as a child of our parents led to a positive nature and behavior for children. It should be done early, since we are still not married / still single / virgin.
2. We continue to provide direction to the child since the child was born. If
the child is able to interact with us so do not get enough of us to
give good example to children through words or deeds even though they
have not yet understood to what he saw and what he listens to. It as a preparation for the child if the child has already stepped Akhil baligh.
3. Once the child is then stepped Akhil baligh he began to understand about good and bad. There we continued to provide extensive insight to the child.
4. Always watch your child's behavior outside the home. There, we as parents struggle for the environment outside is not always good. That
is where attraction occurs between the outside influences and the
influence that we as parents have to guide the child from birth. Influences
outside the home there are 2 kinds of pure influence from the outside
and the outside influences that exist in our homes such as the media and
electronics and so forth. So we as parents should be extra careful in educating children.