To know the process by they people pass the after certain time to be married, involves many changes that are not easy to see at first. Someone thinks that the love that had lost, or simply that is only a whim, in aim. We do not realize that we are human beings with differences and exactly those differences do not make be that rational humans and non irrational animals. By this, Gary Chapman in his book “The five languages of the love” takes us to the knowledge of five forms or ways to experience and express love. “Words of affirmation”, when the only thing that is needed is a word of encourage, where the maximum love expression is put it in words. “Time of quality”, company necessity, the support, to feel the presence of that loved person of unconditional form, without reproaches and with attention. “To receive gifts”, details, “flowers, that object that I have mentioned that it wished certain time ago”, the gifts receive certain sentimental value or symbolism. “Activities in line of duty” all those things that can be done by the loved person, sometimes the simple fact to retire the clothes of the laundry are a frank expression of love. Finally. “Physical Touch”,
when a caress, a rubbing or a hug satisfies the love necessities.
The author has divided the necessities to experience and to express that, to which we called love, to show with subtlety the abysmal differences in function about the conception that is had about the love and how it affects not to include the form, the necessities or, the language of love in the pair.
On the other hand he responds questions like; what happens to the love after the wedding? , What the love is? or When we have to love? Also he approaches subjects like to be in love, what happens to it and the erroneous popular concept of which be in love and love are synonymous. On the other hand to all these pearl of wisdom a new concept which it’s called “tank of the love”, he says us how plenty it stays.
In summary I invite you to know this new conception about the love, each page is more and more interesting, it is a type of Literature that begins and we not left until it finished.