Learning How to Love:
Did you know that we have also to learn how to love? Just like any academical subject. Many of you guys will laugh at that but its no kidding and its good knowing. It may help one day.
There's a saying which goes like that: "No preparation is the best way to failure". So it helps when in love and wanting that the relationship goes on forever to have some basic infos and keep in mind guys that communication is the best tool at hand in any relationship.
Its well known that men and women are different but in spite of that we can still have some stereotype because the human heart works more or less in the same way. There are actions and reactions which are common to everybody and this is another tip worth its "pesant d'or" (Value) like we say in French.
We are all Same and Different at the same time:
In a relationship, one has to adapt to the other who is definitely different from oneself and its only time and effort that will make the relationship works.
Love needs to be built up:
Nothing is built up in the beginning. Everything needs a beginning, everything is possible, there's a goal that the couple sets and an ideal that they dream to achieve. So between the man and the woman, three bridges need to be built, namely the bridge of idealism, the bridge of the body and that of the heart.
The construction of the "Three Bridges":
When a relationship begins these three bridges exist but not completely. That's known to everybody that the bridge of the heart is fully constructed (Love at First Sight) but the bridge of the body (Alchemy of the bodies) is built up only to one third and the bridge of idealism (Man/Woman of my dreams) is scarcely constructed.
The Foundation of the "Three Bridges":
The foundation will be solid only if the couple keeps in mind its goal. Its very important:
(To be continued ...)
- To love the other for what he/she is and not for what he/she gives
- To be one with the other while being two unique individuals at the same time
- To open to the world despite the fact that you want to stay in that little world of yours