I came across Rhonda Byrne's "The Secret" recently in one of the libraries. I had read it once before, but that was the time when I was not into serious reading. This time I wanted to read it fully. When i started reading, I couldnt keep it down even for a second....such a powerful book. In this book, she takes us through the entire life...how we need to live it to get its maximum. We always tend to think that some incidents which occurs in our life is due to our fate or destiny. Rather we try to believe it that way which gives us lot of relief. But she explains in her book that nothing comes to our life because of our fate or destiny, only because we chose it. For example, she says that when you are going out with the fear that accident may happen, it will surely happen because the word "accident" is there in your mind and the universe will try and make it happen to you. So whatever you love and want to see it, would happen to you. Another example she gives is that you write an exam and you think that you will come out successfully..it will surely happen. So there is always a connection between what you think and what happens to you. If you think good things, good will happen to you and vice versa.