In The Five Languages of Apology, you will learn how to identify the primary language of your own apology. Understanding
and applying the five languages of apology would be very good in strengthening the relationships that you belong to, especially for the people you love. Understanding the five languages of apology that we should have because we often make mistakes on others. Sometimes the words "Forgive Me" is not enough. Once again, through this book you can learn to apologize.
Through research and interaction of hundreds of people, Dr counselor. jennifer thomas and Dr. Gary Chapman had discovered five fundamental aspects of the "languages" of this apology, namely:
- Expressing regret-"I'm sorry."
- Accept responsibility - "I was guilty."
- Giving ransom - "What should I do to fix it?"
- With Sincere Repentance - "I'll try to not do it again."
- Apologize - "Will you forgive me?"
In marriage, mistakes often found Mr. Chapman is: we do not know what our spouses love language. We felt it was giving everything, but our partners did not always feel loved. That's because we speak our own love language, not the language of love mate. Analogy: there are two lovers, one can only speak Indonesian, the other can only speak English. Each did not want to learn the language of their partner. Can imagine how difficult they are to communicate, right?
Thus, Chapman said, that person feel loved, it is we have to speak the language of their love. Not the other way, other people who were told to understand our language. So, indeed we are asked to take the initiative to try to understand what the hell our partner's love language.
This book will teach us about how we should behave when dealing with others, especially our partners. Happy reading.