Children are the responsibility of parents to educate, raise, and protect it. But not all activities can be supervised children's parents in a full day. Time
in which they are under parental supervision is much less than their
chance to hang out with her friends at school and with their colleagues
sepermainan after school. Because it is natural that many parents worry whether their children are in a good relationship or otherwise.
But
if parents already provide an adequate education provision, when
removing them to the association, the children will be able to select
and solve their own problems. Which is good for him will they take, digest, and then develop his own, and he applied as the material development of his life. Which ones should be rejected not they take. Because it builds the child's independence to be something important.
Many parents who feel sufficiently educate children by providing extra facilities. Whatever they want they are willing to provide it because he wanted to prove his affection as a parent. But too often these affections excess of undue get results. Not produce an independent person actually foster child who is too strong dependence on parents.
This
morning on the talk-show routine in Sonora Radio Network, I presented
the theme of: The Importance of Building Independence in Kids, by
bringing a touching story titled "Meaningful Footprints".
As
parents, we would expect children to grow into individuals who are
independent, durable, not easily give up, and of course to achieve
success in life. But too often taught self-reliance necessary firmness, sometimes like a "bear" because it makes the child suffer. However, suffered in training / learning is something that must be taken.
There's no easy life. The
stronger his trials / suffering, the better because it will be a
significant contribution to the development of mental wealth.