i've loved and i've been hurt more. i've seen cruel break-ups and i;ve been one of those, i guess. but you know what hurts
the most?------ it's looking at something sliping away without knowing why?why do some people choose to love a cheater rather than a good one?why do we always believe that they are good even if they are not?----maybe because in love, you can't see the bad reality of things,unless you get hurt by them. you'll suddenly realized how worst that person is, that's the pathetic part of being in love that sometimes even the worts person in this world can be the best person in your own belief. i thought it was easy to move-on, to
forget the past and all the pain, it's easy to pretend, but deep in your heart its hard, especially the one you need to forget is the person whom you've loved so much. we are
afraid to fallon love for we are afraid to get hurt. but when we finally fall,do you know whats the first thing were afraid of? --its losing the one we fell in loved with.
when your feelings get too strong for someone, its always wise to stop for a while and give your heart a time to breathe, a time to use your mind, to weigh the situation based on reason,not by emotion. coz you really cant deny when you're inloved. no matter what you do, even if you try not to be affected. you just cant, it just shows that your heart can't deny and love can never ever lie.
when the time comes we all moved on, and forget everything in our past, we'll be laughing at our old dumb selves. always remember that the longer you stay with the things you don't really enjoy equates to every moment you lose with what could be a happy life. love takes time; it needs a history of giving and receiving; love is easy to feel but so hard to explain; easy to get but hard to let go, easy to spell but hard to define; love is created not by words but by feelings, not by humans, but by heart. love until it hurts coz true love means sacrifice, dont mind what people say, just love freely, no rules,exceptions. coz love is not how you forget is how you forgive, not how you listen but how you understand, not what you see but how you feel, not how you let go, but how you hold on. we say we love trees, yet we cut them. no wonder why some people are afraid when they're are loved. i hate you and then i love you its like i want to throw you of the cliff. then rush to the bottom to catch you. the said irony of being in love.
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