Once I''ve been almost into a relationship with the girl I like the
most. I thought it will continue to grow but there was a time when she
said that '' I thought mahal kita?'' Well it''s the question of love. What
is love? Love according to God''s dictionary not to world''s
misconception about it. In the book I Kissed Dating Goodbye (I
recommend it for those who want to pursue waiting for love) the
definiton of love was clearly defined. It points out these facts and
fallacy... Fallacy: Love is about soothing one''s personal needsFact: Love is selflessPeople
thought that love comes thier way whenever the felt the eagerness of
having someone. Someone they thought could fill thier needs. Someone to
talk to and be with. But as the Bible points out, Love is not selfish.
It''s all about what will happen to her if I pursue this relationship...
Fallacy: Love is a feeling Fact: Love is not a feelingFeelings
are the result of human emotions as a resullt of what our hearts tells
us to do. The heart is the wellspring of life, so our heart must be
guarded against impurities and hurts of ungodly prepared relationship. Fallacy: Love is out of our controlFact: Love is controlableYou
may heard someone saying ''kapag in love ka hindi mo magagawang
kontrolin iyong gagawin mo'' well a total misconception of love. When
you experience it you will have control of yourselves and not give in
to do call of your feelings. Love is patient and this patience clearly
shows that we have the power to control everything even more as love
grows in us.That''s all read more about that book and you''ll see a deeper meaning of love. I wanna say to all youths out there that love truly waits.