For the world you may be someone, but for someone you may be the world!!! Love makes us special! Love is one feeling that makes our life beautiful!!!! But how to make Love long lasting?!! – Here are a few secret ingredients from my mom’s kitchen to make a perfect love recipe and maintain a relationship!!
First let us see the Don’t Do’s:
1st ingredient:
No hugging n kissing always: Shocked?! But think! Anything done often makes it boring your presence has to be precious. So give some space for everything, at the same time no scheduled business. Loves is beyond time tables, but remember familiarity breeds to contempt !
2nd ingredient:
Don’t hesitate to say ‘I’m sorry’: When you realize of doing a mistake, kneel down with a rose in ur hand n say sorry as soon as possible!! Do not have EGO! The major cause for the ruin of many relationships is definitely Ego!
3rd ingredient:
Trouble lies in LIE: White Lies like ‘you look great today’ are very necessary for love. But don’t lie about yourself at any cost. Coz it may make Ur.p( ur partner’s) suspect later.
If u suspect Ur.p , then talking is the only solution. ( u need not go to communication classes !!!) and do not rely on what others say. Believe your partner!
4th ingredient:
No dragging in past relationships: Often we have misunderstandings and we quarrel at each other (coz mating after fighting is great thrill!) but do not drag Ur.p’s past relationships. If you do so then …it may be your last quarrel!
5th ingredient:
Don’t ever comment on your partner before others: You can very well talk about Ur p’s positive points before everyone in a loud voice. But don’t ever talk about the negative points in front of others!
Can you tolerate if Ur.p say that you snore at night or you have developed pounds around ur belly before others?!
So keep yourself in Ur.p’s shoes before you talk!
Now Do’s:
6th ingredient:
Care your partner: spare time for Ur.p. Especially when he/she is ill. Don’t be clichéd by sending a get well soon card or sms! Be creative! Make your own card.
Let it be damn bad. But believe me, your partner would love it!
But the best way is to take care of ur love in person. Coz a person feels very lonely when he/she is ill. If u make a small move now, then Ur.p’s love for you will be doubled n tripled!!!
7th ingredient:
Respect others views n tastes: You don’t like hip hop. But Ur.p does. You like literature. But Ur.p doesn’t know even Shakespeare!
Do you know that a relationship becomes interesting when people with different tastes come together? But please don’t boast about your tastes n abilities. Even if you don’t like, go to a hip hop dance show with Ur.p. Then the next time your partner will take you to a book exhibition!!!
8th ingredient:
Surprises: Everyone talks about surprises. Don’t give what you like, but give what Ur.p likes. You may love adventures, but you can’t make your partner to do scuba diving or bungee jumping!! Even if you don’t like, learn to feel happy by seeing your partner enjoying his/her surprise (very filmy!!)
The last n the most important 9th ingredient:
LOVE: The main thing to make a perfect relationship recipe is Love and Love only!!!
Let me conclude with a small conversation b/w a boy and a girl in love.
G: Am I pretty?
B: No!
G: Do you want to live with me?
B: No!
G: Will you cry if I leave you?
B: No!
The girl starts crying. Boy pulls her close to him and said “You are not pretty, but you are the prettiest! I don’t want to live with you, but I want to live for you!!
If you leave me, I won’t cry but DIE!!!!”
This is Love. Spread Love! Enjoy Life!!!!!