STEP 1
Back when I was a kid, I was in the Boy Scouts. Now, anyone who knows
anything about the Boy Scouts will know that tried and true motto:
Always Be Prepared. It’s simple, it’s elegant, and most importantly –
it’s damn effective!
In life, this motto will help you achieve any goal you want. Being
prepared for what you want is the best way to receive it. The universe
will always give you that which you are after, but only if you are
ready for it!
So the first thing you should do before you even
STEP foot outside the house is to know what you want.
Seriously. It amazes me how few guys know what it is they want. Here’s
a little secret for you: If you don’t know what you want, you’ll never
get it!
Do you want a one night stand? Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want a
wife? Do you want a blonde, brunette, or redhead? Do you want a woman
with big boobs? Do you want a highly educated woman? Do you want a
woman who is independent? Do you want a woman who smokes? Do you want a
single mom? Do you want a woman who loves giving blowjobs? Do you want
a woman who is white, black, latin, or asian?
The list can go on and on. The fact is, knowing what you want will help
you to get it! Why? Because you eliminate all the other distractions
that could keep you from getting what you want or prolong your search.
For instance, let’s say you want to settle down and you’re
looking for
a woman to get married to. Are you going to waste your time picking up
party girls who want to go out every night, dress sexy so other guys
can oogle them, and never stay at home except maybe to shower and
change clothes?
Of course not!
You’re going to go after women who have settled down and are looking
for stability. So this means you have to forget about those nightclubs
all your buddies are going to, and look for venues where you can find
the
type of women you want.
So remember: Always know what you want! To the most minute detail. And
don’t be afraid to walk away should one of your requirements not be met.
STEP 2
The next step, after knowing what you want, is to ask yourself: Where can I find the type of women I want to meet?
This is really important. Different places attract different types of
women. Depending on where you go, you will get a different category of
women.
Notice, I’m not saying you can’t
meet a nice, stable
girl who’s ready
to settle down at a nightclub. But your chances of meeting a wild party
girl who’s just into hooking up with a guy at such a venue is much
greater. So if that’s what you’re looking for, a nightclub is a good
bet you’ll meet that type of girl there.
If you’re looking for a girl who’s a little less wild, maybe more
intellectual, where would you meet these types of women? Figure out the
places where a
certain type of woman would congregate. In this
instance: museums, book stores, art galleries, and libraries come to
mind.
Once you know where the type of girl you want to meet will be, it will
be far, FAR easier to meet them! Just think of all the time and effort
you’ll save by skipping the venues where the women you don’t want
dominate.
Of course, you should always be on the lookout for the type of women
you want, so don’t dismiss all women just because the venue isn’t
right. But typically, if you’re on the prowl, the location will dictate
the type of women you’ll find.
STEP 3
Now that you know what you want, and where to find it, it’s time to look at what you’ll be presenting the world. Namely – YOU!
Let’s face it, certain types of women are attracted to certain types of
men. Depending on how you look, you will attract a certain type of girl.
Notice, I’m not talking about your physical looks here. We can’t
control how good looking or ugly we are physically. But we CAN control
our appearance. This includes our hairstyle, our skin, our facial hair,
our weight, and our clothing. We can groom ourselves to project a
certain image
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