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NEVER LET GO!!!!!!!

Article Summary   by:JITHENDRAANTONIO     Original Author: JITHENDRA ANTONIO
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Since my best friend/ guardian angel is leaving the country, I''m left to deal with the whole scenario of letting go!

First and foremost I would like to confess that it sucks when people leave or when you have to let go of someone. And for those who go around telling, "you''ll get used to it with time", well my friend, you don''t unless ''what you mean with time is 2, 3 or more years!! Its one of those things in life that you will never ever get used to…!!

While visiting memory lane, there have been many instances where I''d had to let go of someone very close to me, like the time I had to part with my clique because we were put into different classes. This incident took place when I was in grade 9 and it was terrible cuz after we were put into different classes, things were never the same between us again. Everyone found their own little clique and we were forgotten, what started out as small misunderstandings, gradually turned into big issues as we were no longer close and our bond suffered because of it. Though looking back at it now, I have come to understand that everything in life has its own reasons that we would never figure out.

In my case as I grew up things only got worse because I never got use to letting go of people and I still suffer from it. For me letting go of someone who is very close is an act of detriment it''s as if I have to cut out a part of me when letting go of that person. The fact that I never learnt to accept that aspect of life played a destructive role in my life as I felt I was vulnerable when getting close to someone.

Making friends and committing oneself into relationships are a part of life, though it''s very easy to make friends and fall in love its difficult to keep it smooth and strong as it takes a lot of hard work. And when one party refuses to compromise with the other the chances are that the relationship or friendship is heading towards doom land!! Though it was quite easy to get close and have a whirl wind romance it''s quite an opposite feeling when you have to part in your ways. Things that were once beautiful turn sour within a glance, the love that blossomed turns into pent up anger, hurt and hate. Though it seems quite easy to break up at that point it''s impossible to let go of that person just like that and if you don''t think so, I can guarantee that you''re fooling yourself in the long run!! It doesn''t necessarily have to be a love affair, even losing your best friend tends to weave the same feelings of loss, loneliness and hurt. After an end of a relationship or friendship you pull yourself into a bottomless pit and wallow in self pity and hurt, you remind yourself of all the good times you had together and question yourself why things had to end so badly. It''s beyond sad when you are unable to approach the person you once called your best friend or love.

So yeah, letting go of someone you depend on and care for and most of all lean for support no matter what the issue is, is impossible for you will never meet a person like that. A friend who bullies you just to see how long you can withstand it, someone who knows that you''re upset just by recognizing it in your voice, and someone who knows what ticks you and what annoys. Time will never heal the wounds of the loss of this someone for no matter how many years pass by, the memories will always linger reminding you of the times you can never have again.

Though life will surprise you with new people, it can never give you what you have lost unless destiny thinks otherwise. Most of the time it''s a good thing but there are a few instances where you wish for another chance to make things right with someone you love.

Even friendships need a lot of work for if you give the possibility of suspicion, possessiveness or jealousy to have its way, it will ruin your friendship till one party takes a stand to resolve the issue. In my opinion that ous, strong and understanding to withstand the disregard and anger that will be hurled, and keep on trying for there is nothing to lose.

So as I wallow in the fact that my guardian angel who is my greatest strength leaves the island I''d like to put a shout out to all my friends who have already left the country and to those I have lost in touch with!

P.S- Guardian Angle, thanx for everything you have done and thanx for putting up with me for all these years… :
Published: October 01, 2007   
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