The following was written by a 30 year old woman called Barbie Bubbles.
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Its true that we dont know what weve got until we lose it, but its also true that we dont know what weve been missing until it arrives. Its better to lose your pride to the one you love, than to lose the one you love because of pride. Dont cry over anyone who wont cry over you. What do you do when the only
person that can stop you crying, is the person that made you cry? True love is ultimately respect. And also admiration. You admire the qualities of this person/thing/being. It hurts to love someone and not to be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally do meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift. Caring is definitely linked to love, as it is to
romance.
We spend so much time looking for the right person to love... or finding fault with those we already love... when instead, we should be perfecting the love we give. Some thoughts are better left unsaid, some feelings are better left kept to yourself, but love has its way of expressing itself despite the silence. But like I say romance doesnt =love, and love doesnt =romance.Love is a feeling. Romance is behaviour.Women are generally more romantic towards their children and partners. Women are often more sensitive and aim to please.But this doesnt mean men, particulary those who are not romantic dont care. You can show your love and care for someone in different ways.When you truly care for someone, you dont look for faults... you dont look for answers... you dont look for mistakes. Instead, you fight the mistakes, you accept the faults, and you overlook excuses. The measure of love is when you love without measure. In life, there are very rare chances that youll meet the person you love and who loves you in return. So once you have it, dont ever let go... The chance might never come your way again.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance and you find that you still care for that person. You cant make someone love you-all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth. If you love someone, put their name in a circle, instead of a heart, because hearts can break, but circles go on forever.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they will love you back. Dont expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their hearts; but if it doesnt, be content that it grew in yours. It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone - but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Never accept love if you cant give yourself in return. Never start a relationship you know youll want to end eventually. Dont go for looks, it can deceive; Dont go for wealth - even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because only a smile makes a dark day seem bright.
Love comes to those who still hope even though theyve been disappointed; to those who still believe even though theyve been betrayed; to those who still need love even though theyve been hurt before. The beginning of love is to let those we love be perfectly themselves, and not twist them with our own image - otherwise, we love only our own reflection of ourselves that we find in them.
You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave your past as you turn the pages of life. Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go; be what yo want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
Never say goodbye when you still want to try - never give up when you still feel you can take it - never say you dont love that person anymore when you dont really want to let go. Friendship beings with a smile, Love begins with a kiss, Life ends with a tear. The brightest future will always be based on forgotton past. You cant get on well in life until you let go of your past failures and headaches. Everything is ok in the end. If its not ok its not the end.
Everything happens for a reason, And if you dont know the reason,Theres a reason for that too...True love is like ghosts, which everybody talks about and few have seen.