Trying to get a woman’s on date1. Have you ever watched a movie or seen in real life where a
guy does everything for a
girl… writes her poems, gives her things, does things for her and kisses up to her all the time and she completely isn’t interested in him? Well, that’s real life.Men seem to think that getting a woman’s on date is
going to make her
attracted to him. The problem is that women won’t respect you if you don’t have your own ideas and beliefs. Women are not attracted to men who will change their entire lives to fit hers or are always looking for her approval.If you’re trying too hard to win a girl over, you’ll do exactly the opposite.2. Do not talk about Boring TopicsMost guys walk up to women and if they have anything to say at all, they talk about cars, jobs, college degrees
and numerous other topics that women are completely not interested in.If you want to bore a woman to death, this is a great technique. But, I think it might do you some good to learn how to talk to a girl in a way that is interesting for the both of you… not just you.3. Do not Try to Convince a Woman that She Should Like youWhen you realize that a woman doesn’t like you, you typically will try to convince her that she should.
The problem is that no matter how hard you tries, it’s never going to work.A woman’s either going to be
attracted to you or she isn’t. No amount of whining, crying, pleading or begging is ever going to change that.
You have to know how to work with a girl’s emotions so that she naturally is attracted to you every time.4. You Lets Her Lead EverythingWomen hate it when guys don’t take the lead. It sends shivers down my spine every time I hear a conversation where the guy won’t make a decision and the girl is trying to get him to. “Whatever you want to do” is a common horrifying phrase that I seem to hear a lot of guys saying.It’s okay for you to make the plans on where to go, what to do and how to dress. Women enjoy being able to relax and know that you’re going to be able to take care of everything.5. Do not start too Many Compliments Too EarlyA really attractive woman will get approached a couple times a day from different men. The reality of it is that
most men, although they think they’re being really clever and saying something unique, all basically say the same
thing to her.The guy walks up, pretending he’s not there to talk to her, then stands there for a couple of minutes
waiting to get the courage to say something to her. Then, when he gets the courage to say something, it’s probably
at least half of the time a compliment on some type of physical feature she has.There’s nothing that is a bigger
turnoff for women than being like every single other guy out there. You need to be different and unique. You need to
be interesting…6. Use Pick Up LinesI don’t know where pickup lines came from or if they actually worked at some point in time. However, I can
tell you that they don’t work anymore. I actually heard a guy walk up to a girl the other day and say,
“If you were a sandwich at McDonald’s, you’d be a McGorgeous!” Needless to say, that isn’t exactly the best
thing to say to a woman. Most girls will laugh you away if you
approach using pick up lines.You can easily learn
what will work when approaching women so you don’t have to settle again for saying things that aren’t going to work.7. Try to Impress a WomanWhen a guy tries to impress a woman with money, clothes, and cars, it shows that he doesn’t understand anything about women and that he’s needy and materialistic.I mean, there are definitely some women who are attracted to money. But, is that the type of relationship that you want anyway?Honestly, I don’t really have enough money to be walking around trying to buy women’s affection and attention anyway.Women are much more interested in who you are than what type of car you drive.
8. Waiting for Women to Approach ThemIt takes a lot more for a guy to be rejected. A girl actually has to tell him that she’s not interested or do
something else very obvious that shows she isn’t interested in him.Its completely different with girls. Girls don’t
typically approach men. They stand there and look at a man that they like and might even smile. When the guy makes eye contact back with the girl, she thinks her job is done.If you don’t approach her, she feels rejected. That’s all it takes!Its not a woman’s job to approach men and its not very likely that they will. Especially beautiful women who are approached several times a day.
9. Dont beToo Serious