You've met the most incredible girl. You don't really know her, but you're pretty sure she's a Goddess, sent straight from
Heaven, in jeans.You exchanged glances in Chemistry, had a few brief conversations after class, and even bumped into her at the mall.You KNOW you want her. There's no doubt about it. The question now becomes, Does she want you?She smiles at you... but is it a friendly or a flirtatious smile? You saw her leave with another guy after class... was he her boyfriend? She flirted with you last week, even touched your shoulder... then completely ignored you the other day. Does she like you?How can you tell? You really need to know this before you begin the pursuit don't you?Perhaps the most common question posed on the Don Juan Discussion Forum concerns reading women and trying to figure out whether they like you or not. The poster usually describes his situation, what he did, what she did, and then asks, Does this mean she likes me? Or, Does this mean she doesn't like me?Definitely a popular question. Definitely a question in need of an answer.
THE ANSWER -- Obsessing about a particular girl, and whether or not she likes you, is the DON JUAN KISS OF DEATH!If you're worrying about whether a girl likes you or not, chances are she doesn't - or rather, SHE WON'T. She won't because your worry and your
obsession with what she thinks of you will actually push her away.Let me clarify.When you let yourself fall into the obsession trap, you begin to analyze everything your dream girl does, every word she says, every move she makes... and try to relate them all to you.She smiled at you - she didn't smile at you. She emailed you - she didn't email you. She returned your call - she didn't return your call. Confusion, frustration, and anxiety result.This obsession with her behaviors and their meanings will paralyze you, confuse you, and suck every ounce of confidence you have from your body. You will become a Blithering Blob of Insecurity. And women, in general, are not
attracted to Blithering Blobs of Insecurity.
So are you wrong to be confused by women? NO! Absolutely NO! Women ARE confusing. Always have been and always will be. That's just the way they are.Especially when it comes to romance, women seem totally inconsistent in their behaviors. One minute you're convinced you're the man of her dreams, and the next she seems to be unaware of your existence. You SHOULD be frustrated and confused!Now, no one knows exactly why women give off such mixed signals and deliberately, it seems, attempt to confuse us. Some suspect it's those magazines they read. Others think it has to do with the secret bathroom conferences they hold. Still others propose that their illogical behaviors are due to the wacky hormones they have surging throughout their bodies. The cause is relatively unimportant. You just have to accept it, and plot your strategy to deal with it.
So, given the inconsistencies of female romantic behavior, attempting to read women and figure out what they're thinking, is, at best, an incredibly frustrating experience. So don't do it. Don't even attempt it.
Just say NO to reading women!Okay... well... if you don't really try to read women to determine whether they like you or not, then what do you do? What's your strategy? After all, they may be confusing, illogical, and somewhat annoying, but you still wanna get you one.Simple: If you're attracted to a girl, then just ASSUME she's attracted to you too. And€T ACCORDINGLY.