Friends are like shoes, they are perfect example of synergistic work. We cannot walk with one shoe, therefore also not without
a friend. Usually we have
different set of
friends ranging from our home, our profession and our social circle. Says Jessica 31, she has friends of different categories, like a loyal friend, a emotional one, a intelligent one and a understanding one. She is very happy to find all these friends. Why these multiple friends are so valuable. When we are young, it is good to have one or two all purpose friends. Then why is need for these variable friends. Expert say when we become adult our interests and needs become more complex and these need are meet by diverse group. It is unrealistic to expect every thing from a single friend. We usually give importance to their strengths and not try to mould them into something else. We can differentiate our friends into five different groups. First is Work friend. Work friend help us to be more productive, Share fun, help in difficulties at job and make day go faster. Some people even accepted that due their friends they are able to survive jobs. With your friend you can discuss about the boss and fantasy about the future. Study has shown work place become more enjoyable ,if have good friends are there. In second category come friends from your kid class. You need a friend in childhood with whom you can discuss teacher is unfair or not and you share your sixth standard dating. In childhood they are angels, but it may not be true when they are adults. Third is the friend who knows you forever. These friends are priceless. These are friend who know you most as person. They keep your memories alive. With this friend you will like to share all you things. Fourth is Hobby Bubby. With whom you go to movies, market place and parties. If you have to enroll a computer course, definitely you will look for him. He shares most of interests and sensibility with you. It is very motivating to work with a friend, who spoke your vocabulary and have common needs to share. Psychologist says this is most important for once growth. Fifth is Feel Good friend. This friend always encourages you. Help you to come out of adverse condition. In every situation he sports you. He always tries to make you happy. You usually starts feeling good ,even by seeing him. Sixth type has conflict, some agree on it and some don't. This Straight-Talking friend. This friend tells everything good or bad on our face. therefore sometimes he was not liked. But actually all of us need this type of friends. They are honest in their views. They provide us opportunely to evaluate our behavior.
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