How to tell if you mate is cheating.
I learned over the years, that everyone asks the same
question all
the time, especially when the
relationship starts to get rocky. I’m I being cheating on? For some of you out their, you figure if your doing it, he/she might be doing it to. Well I hate to break it to you, but it doesn’t always work that way. The
question you really should be asking is how well you know your mate. In every relationship I’ve been in and even other people’s relationship problems I’ve listing too are all the same. They don’t take the time to get to know their partner. Its ether all about sex or money, then latter on you find your self asking that question, Is he or she cheating on me? Well I’m going to help you answer that question. If you follow these steps you shouldn’t have your answer.
Learning your partner, (if you don’t know your partner nothing else will help you.)
1. Find out what kind of job your partner does. (This can help with body orders) depending on the job can tell you if he/she comes in contact with a lot of people and will pass a lot of different orders.
2. Learn your partner smell. (Everyone has a body order even if they wear scented items. No man or woman likes to hug their mate when their sweaty but this is the best way for you to know the difference. Also know what you smell like after sex. Each woman and man carrier a different order when this happen and if you and you partner have sex you both will have the same order every time. Verse if you sleep with someone different you and the other person order will change.
3. Learn your partner routine. Keep in touch, give those love calls or just to see how you’re doing. (Don’t ask too many questions.) This call is just to see if he or she is busy and how long. This is a new generation of women and men you’re not looking for the thing are parents did, were much smarter now.
4. Use common since. If you are the other woman or man! You will know that he/ she is with the other mate. And don’t think for once that they are completely yours. If you are cheating doesn’t mean they are cheating, and be careful this work both ways.
5. Be up front. Set your standers on what you want out of your relationship, Know exactly what you want and stick to it. Remember that everyone make mastics. Be able to make up your mind, if you can’t this will hurt you in the end.
6. Check for changes. Everyone changes when they get comfortable, this change you’re not looking for. You’re looking for the change when he or she calls, how often they take baths or shower, mood swings, kisses before bed or line of communication. The fighting, yelling, and don’t want to be bother with you. (Ask question this could be because something you did.) If you don’t live to gather, how often you have access to their house. Can you do pop ups.
7. Don‘t ramble throw their things! This is a trap waiting to happen, everyone know when their things have been touch. If caught you’ll never find anything your want to know. So be smart. Set down with him or her and ask what is this and can you see it. If he/she is open about it theirs nothing wrong. If he/ she call you nosey just say, (you want to everything theirs is about you). Smile, hug, and then give a gift at least once a week. (It doesn’t have to be expensive or big it’s the thought that count. When you give it (say: I saw it and was thinking of you.)
8. Be helpful, offer to take your partner places and don’t be late! Learn their friends and males and females friends as well. Let him/her answer your phone so when you do it to them, (you can always say, what wrong you answer my phone.) When you answer the phone be polite, ask who calling, say just a min and pass the phone. (if he/she did not tell the other person that they was seeing someone, you’ll get check then by who ever on the line. If they ask who you are, say I’m his wife, girlfriend or husband, boy friend.If you can follow these 8 simple steps you’ll know if your mate is cheating and you won’t have to ask that question. It sometimes goes a little deeper but here something to help you gets started. Don’t forget that this work both ways and if you’re up front about what you want it goes a long way. Be truthful to your self as well as your partner and if you can’t accept it try to fix it or leave it alone. You can’t change people; you only make them hid who they really are.
Samuella Copeland