This paper discusses the two
contrasting theories regarding gender
differences in speech: the Dominance approach and the
Difference approach, by reference to Deborah Tannen's study "You Just Don't Understand: Women and Men in Conversation" and West and Zimmerman's study "Sex Roles, Interruptions and Silences in Conversation". The paper critically evaluates these positions and considers explanations for the
differences in male and female languages usage. In conclusion, the paper reviews possible strategies to decrease the confusion, frustration and hurt that is caused by men and women's
contrasting speech styles.