The Early Years Of a Child What Should Parents do?
During the dozen years-old, stephen graduated
with honors from the University of Miami. Two years later, at the age of 16, he
graduated from law school, and according to his biography, he went on to become
the youngest lawyer in the United States. Her mother, Dr. Florence Baccus - an
ex-teacher and retired teacher mentor have devoted a lot of time to research on
education for children early on. He was sure that attention and stimulation, which she gave to her baby to change the
future of the child.
Congenital versus orphanage
Often disputed by the scientists child
psychologist lately is the factor what role in the development of a child, is
that nature congenital or the way he raised and trained. Most researchers
believe that child development affected by a coalescence two factors. An expert
on children development, dr. J. Fraser mustard, explained that “according to the results of observations in
early years life a child affected his mind”. Professor
susan greenfield also said “ for example,
we know that part the brain associated with finger gestures left the violinist
more growing than others”.
Responding to the results of such research,
many parents not only strives to enroll their children into good play group but
also willing to spend a lot of money for art and music courses. There are those
who believe that if a child to learn everything, he can do everything. Special
education programs and play groups are mushrooming. Some parents are willing to
do just about anything as much as them so that they are superior to other
children. Therefore. Is there any way to find a balance that makes sense? and
what is the ability that children have for the developing world?
The Role of Synapses
Progress in technology brain scans allow
scientists studies the development of the brain in more detail compared with at
other times. Such research show that the first years in the life of a child is
the most important to develop the function of the brain that sets required to
tackle information, said the emotion with the normal and proficient speaking.
Scientists believe that most of these
connections, called synapses, made in the first few years of life. That''s the
time the formation of neural connections that would affect the baby
intelligence, self-awareness, the ability to trust and motivation to learn.
According to Dr. t. Berry Brazelton, an expert in the field of child
There is a possibility that more and more
stimulation of the brain of infants, obtained more and more nerve cells are
stimulated and a growing number of connections that form between cells. It''s
interesting, this stimulation not only obtained by learning about the facts,
figures, or language. scientists have found that emotional stimuli are also
needed. The research also showed that babies who are not touched in his arms
and not invited to play as well or not stimulated by emotion will form fewer
In the 1950s, anthropologist M. F. Asley Montagu wrote, “is most needed
human body for its development is especially love nutrition”, during the first six years of life. Children
as young plants growing and fertile when treated with loving consistent. Water
and sunlight to feed young plants and stimulates the healthy growth and
stability. Similarly, parents who bestow love through words and actions to
children will nurture the development and stability of attitudes and emotions
of their children.
If you use the time with your kids, a bond will
be interwoven. Furthermore, it improves communication skills. the time used by
parents to their children is far more important than an expensive toy or
special activities. Everyday activities can be an inexpensive opportunity to
communicate with the children.
The Rules of The Family
A sociologist at the University of Georgia.
Says the fact is “children will
be better if there are clear rules and consequences are firm”. Without both,
children will become engrossed with self, selfish, and unhappy and make
everyone around them miserableSo make a list of written rules of the household
according to You should be in respect of children. A short list of house rules
is selected properly enforced would be easier and more memorable. Include also
the consequences if rules are violated. Make sure that the sentence was
reasonable and you''re ready to enforce. routinely review the rules in order,
all including Mama and Papa knows exactly what is expected of them in. and no
haggling with your child if it''s not your child will think that it need not be
Do all their labors this pointless? Parents who
are doing the best possible in applying these guidelines would be more likely
to see their children develop a positive attitude. If You embed the early
intellectual and communication skills in children, undoubtedly it would have
much role in shaping their spiritual and moral character.
Centuries ago, there was a word of advice I''ve
ever written. “Trainer is a boy according to the road for him, even at the time
... He is old, he will not depart therefrom”. So once again parents really play
a very important role in the training of children. Stated for the affluent, use
of time along with them, and discipline is they way, you and your children will
reap the beatific vision.