In today’s materialistic world,there are lot of situations that try to collapse a relationship,be it between friends,couples or parents and children .But will the aversions raise humanity. Man should develop a philanthrophic attidue in the days to come.Love should be the weapon to conquer any person.Nowadays we can see people who are so lovable towards animals.(They might even get angry for the word animal).Why not they extend their loving heart towards fellow humans.The main reason is they are unable to suppress their ego.A book I read recently gave a different meaning to the word.”EDGING GOD OUT “.Sadhguru Jaggi Vasudev used to say circastically that peole are so lovable towards God whom they have never at all seen and whom they are doubtful about seeing in future.But they hate his incredible creation who are living with them.People think that are strong enough when they hate somebody.But,is that true?Not at all.They become weaker says Sadhguru.Because their mind undergoes a stress which in turn affects the body.There by the person becomes weaker physically,mentally and spiritually.
There is also a saying “ Love is the only product which benefits both the giver and buyer.”
v Leave no way to proud feelings as to “I am the greatest person or I am the best”.
v Stop talking without any meaning and without a thought about the consequences.
v Deal with issues and problems in a dynamic manner.
v Never hesitate to compromise.
v Agree to the fact that you have to tolerate certain situations.
v Never argue as to justify your words and deeds.
v Do not carry tales without knowing the truth.
v Give way for a broader mind.
v Never feel proud by comparing yourselves with others.
v Never desire more the want and more than you deserve.
v Never make loose talks.
v Never believe all issues that you hear.
v Never make an issue of silly things.
v Be flexible with your ideas.
v Never misunderstand others thoughts,words and deeds.
v Never fail to respect others.
v Never fail to show warmth in your speech.
v Never act as if you lack time even to smile or to deliver some kind words.
v Avoid indecency in your words and actions.
v Be down to earth and with good conduct.
v Never wait for the other to apologize when there is a problem.