I''m going to be completely honest with you
right now, I have sat at my computer many times within the past several months writing everything I have had on my mind. I''ve written about topics that actually mattered a great deal to me but decided not to post my thoughts because now I amacutely aware of the fact that people actually read what I write. I just want to speak from my heart and say the words on my mind, so that is what I must do. So its time for me to lay it all out there once again and speak my mind without any boundaries.
With every day, life seems to be bringing me closer and closer to my goals and I''m really just trying to stay focused. My only regret is that I wish I had more time to spend conversing with all the amazing people that have been writing letters to me. Your kind words and thoughts,keep me going And I want you to know that I have been working so hard on my life and I want to make you all proud.
Here''sthe inside scoop Basically I have had music on the brain 24-7 and have become a little distant from my friends, who are my family. I''m not going to make any excuses nor am I complaining, I just want to let you all know that the distance is for a purpose. I have so many thoughts running through my mind lately and I can barely tolerate myself. So the distance is for your safety because I know that I could drive a patient and kind human being right now.
Luckily their''s hope, when we see this behaviour in ourselves we can resist it.Through finding ways out of tough situations we become proactive. So next time someone blows up on you look at it this way, you have two choices 1)
choose from the various reactions you could have such as matching his/her anger with your own, getting sad and feel verballyabused (OR) 2) You can choose to be
proactive by avoiding a fight and letting all negativety go by choosing not to let the situation get to you. Everytime you choose to be proactive instead of relative, you aremaking a conscious decision to step outside your emotions.
Life has been different since I came to this realization. Now, with every hardship that comes my way I look at it as an opportunity to be proactive instead of reactive. With that said, when I choose not to get emotional I feel a sense of accomplishment, because now, I know I am growing towards being emotionally untouchable. Its empowering when you realize you can guard yourself from the pain people try to inflict upon you due to there own selfishness, greed, or anger. You can take control of your emotions and your life, just take it one day at a time.
Lastly, be honest and appreciate others, render a sympathetic ear to the neeeds of others, an open ear is the only believable sign of an open heart. listening indicate caring, when u render a caring
attitude towards others, it makes the other person feel important. One of the deepest desire of hunman beings is the desire to be important. create an atmostphere to let them know there are been cared for, by joking and chatting with them. welcome them into your home and life, cos the feeling of being unwanted is rather painful. Thank you all so much for reading...
Note: Your attitude is the only thing you can control in this world, so always have a
possitive thinking and the right attitude towards others. With such a personality, one can never be a failure in life.
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