The Memory and the
traumatic situations of the life All we have throughout our life, situations of suffering, motivated for some episodes, that go, since the loss of significant people for us, until the abandonments of people who we like, passing for others of various order. I
look for in this brief synthesis, to transmit you it more healthful way in mental terms to treat to exceed these sufferings. Generally we opt to " to
try to
forget, restraining the feelings that are grasped to these situations ", and with the time we finish there for going attenuating this suffering. However during this time, we give connosco to have unexpected souvenirs of these situations traumatic, that in leave them with face marks, corporal and others, revealing of great sadness. They say the understood ones and I believe because I try to practise this, that the best way of says, " to try to forget ", I am to
remember conscientiously what he happened and thus to look for to free you distress them and the bad one to be that they are grasped emotionally to these traumatic situations. Many of the alone times we do not obtain to make this work and there it does not have as to ask for an aid who it knows. But never to be excessively stubborn or defensive trying direful efforts to forget. With easiness we do not forget what it is remembered and worked for proper us. It is obvious that traumatic situations exist, much more easy of " to digest " of what others. For this it does not have nor prescriptions, nor graduations, but it has always a thing to make; " to remember " and to inside work of us this souvenir, times with homesickness, others with rancor but always to remember, until with elapsing of the time everything if goes wasting and losing meant intense that in massacres them. Everything what is internal repression or attempt of " to move away " ideas that feelings of the great internal pain have is as that a ghost that also is gone in some cases wasting with the time, but that while elapses and while it is attenuated he is much more painful. Because to pass all it passes for the most part of the people, the problem inhabits in the slaughters the one that we are citizens for running away from what he is painful. Summarizing; to face; to work the lived emotions, and to look to aid without distrusts nor omissions. At least thus, I say you for proper experience it becomes more if attenuated pain and delays, little time to perhaps vanish itself.
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