“I don''t depend on nobody and nobody depends on me... My life''s my own. But I don''t have peace of mind. And if you don''t have that, you''ve got nothing,” says the fictional character of the
movie Alfie. I couldn’t have put it in better words. The way that most of us feel, those that haven’t be able to find that one person, or someone that wants to share their lives with us.
We say life is cruel, and that destiny has it against us just because we can’t find someone to be with. Yet have we ever stopped and think that maybe its us. Stop and think for a minute. Could it be possible that maybe we are the ones who make people want to runaway from our lives?
Some people sit all day in a puddle of their own misery thinking, why is everyone so vain, why does everyone look for perfection, why am I not enough? Well is everyone enough for you. When was the last time you decided to take a date with someone who was not attractive, just to find out if they could be the
love of your life? I know, because we want the exotic ones to be the ones that we are going to love forever. The beautiful girl or the gorgeous guy.
So is attraction and being attractive important. Of course it is, it’s that first time that you look at someone that makes you go up to them. Of course like everyone else I will use the cliché; beauty is in the eye of the beholder. It is true, and I won’t deny that, yet there is an instituted perspective of beauty that one most abide by. And we are the first ones to make sure it follows through by flattering all the movie
stars and by giving fame to people just because they are attractive. But that is not the point of why I right. I right because in this world we all want the same, unfortunately we are not all the same, and if not we would all marry attractive amazing people.
I’m not trying to tell you that you’re wrong for wanting the full package. I’m asking you to look ahead, so that you will not find yourself not depending on nobody or nobody depending on you. To those that will not settle because they are sure that there is something much better out there. This is just the same as being a player that obsesses on dating many people. You’re not that far from the tree. You have to understand that no one is
perfect and those that you think might be might be the least perfect.
You might think there is no point to all of this that I’m saying. Yet not everyone finds love, and not everyone finds someone to spend the rest of their lives with. Think outside the
fairy tale box and know that in the word we live we might just have to
compromise that fairly tail.
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