One of the first things that a woman will tell you when being asked for what she looks for in a man, is that she looks for
a sense of humor. If you''re somewhat smarter you will know that this means she loves the kind of men she can have a fun, interesting
conversation with (not that she wants someone to recites jokes to her).
Ok, you''ve gotten this far, you know you want to have fun-filled
conversations with women. How do you achieve this.
Well, if you look for it, many authors are more than willing to give you all kinds of tricks and techniques and lines to draw a quick reaction from a woman (I will give you techniques as well, but for a different reasons)...
What you need to realize is that this is only a way of "pretending" like you''re that type of guy. In order to have 10 fun and unique conversations with 10 different women you would need to memorize a 100 different lines and stories and comebacks...
So... You get it that isn''t the proper way to go about it. What is?
The best way of having a fun conversation with a woman (or women in general) is to become a natural at it.
"Ok, now you''ve done it! Are you being ironic?"
No, not at all. See, flirting and having fun conversations is something we are born knowing and being able to do. The only reason we don''t do it is social inhibition and not being "in the moment". If you were to search through your memory you will find that there were instances in your life where you find yourself cracking jokes let and right and just being fun and funny with a woman. I can bet that most likely you didn''t read a bunch of techniques on how to do it... you just "found yourself" doing it, because you were in that kind of a "mood".
So, how do we get you to this point more often. How can we get you to be the kind of a person who can enter that "mood" whenever he wishes, as if he had an on/off switch?
I''m glad you asked.
The way to get there is by:
1) Having as many fun conversations as possible
2) Removing the obstacles that prevent you from having it
Let''s concentrate on *number1* having as many fun conversations as possible as the way to becoming a "natural" at this. Isn''t this a situation of the chicken and the egg? In order to become a natural at having fun conversations you need to have done this a countless many times... and in order to do it... you need to be a natural?!
Where do we start!? That''s where "techniques" come in. If you are to search the area of dating-tips for men you will find that there a countless number of sites and products trying to give you the "secret technique" to "getting a girl in bed in 2 minutes or less"... and other such similar claims. If you are to inspect what they talk about further you will realize that they are all different techniques designed to get a certain reaction out of women.
These can range from funny remarks to insert into your conversation, up to entire pre-fabricated stories and routines (pre-planned modes of action) to perform... all of them designed to have the women experience a fun reaction.
Now, solely using these will not get you "laid in 2 minutes" as the authors of these "seduction" sites and forums would have you believe, but what they will do is provide a very useful "crutch" for you to start getting "glimpses" of fun conversations with women. You can start using these "lines" and "routines" so that you get accustomed to getting fun reactions and moments in your interactions with women. Consider these as "training wheels" for your ultimate fun-self.
Over time you will find that you will start to spontaneously more and more come up with and give funny and interesting remarks, finding yourself doing and saying the most fun of things whilst in conversation with women.