A man''s perspective of a needy person is someone who cannot stand on his own, someone who is clingy, someone who is insecure, and someone who can''t live alone.
What if a person is really in need? In need of help, assistance or guidance? Is that needy? What if a person just need a hug and just wanna stay beside her love one? Is thet being clingy or needy?
It''s too painful to hear for someone in need of help when he hear and feel someone telling him he is just needy, when he is trying to tell what''s going on with him.
Isn''t that insensitivity? When someone knows yet he tries to be deaf or blind of the fact that someone needs him. I believe that, when someone in need is the best time care and help for what good the hay if for when the donkey already looses his life?
In times of progress people are there. In times of fun and gains more people are there. In times of trouble people are less. In times of need people are nowhere
Wanting someone to be near you always and be close to you doesn’t mean being needy.
She might just want affection or show affection. She might just want attention and assurance.
Men who think this way are coward, insensitive and selfish. It''s never a good quality of a man. For most women likes affection, tender loving care, satisfaction of what women wants like security, fashion, glamour, which is also the key to making men more excited about the women they have.
Life is a give and take. If''s like a wheel where someone may be down now, soon he will rise up. Let us not be selfish. Let us not forget the law of sowing and reaping. Try to understand the need of our loved ones for all we know it is also for our own benefits..