Everywhere you go, people,
magazines talk about love. God commands us to love each other as we love our
selves. Our parents love us so much,
most especially our mothers compared to our fathers.
Perhaps you must have felt your
first love feelings when you were a teenager
in your first relationship. Your heart beat was faster 100 times when you
first looked in his eyes. It was as if some one had charmed you, and all your
whole self was independent on him. It was like a great conquer over your independence.
And all what you had to do was to surrender in to him .You thought you could
not live without him and all your thoughts and plans were around him. You can
not imagine it all, how you really felt during that time.
All great singers in hip hop, raga,
country, house, R&B, slow jams etc, and by great poets, they whole try to
give their views of how they really feel about it. People continue to spice it
up to show how differently and greatly loving there are towards there loved
To some, love is a feeling, but l
disagrees with this saying. There is a great different between these two terms.
A feeling can be from the five senses on our bodies like, touching, hearing,
breathing, seeing and tasting. Also we have feeling from the heart like, being
excited, happy, missing some one, lone less, sad, and annoyed and all that stuff.
To day you may have these feeling but tomorrow you feel differently. These
feelings come and go.
We all have different feeling at curtain
points ,what angers some one at a curtain point does not anger another at that
point. What excites one at a point does not excite another at that point. These
are feelings that are rated according to our back grounds, peers, beliefs and
what, how we really judge at that point. Should we apply this saying that says one
man’s meat is another man’s poison; the answer is and depends on who is saying
yes or no? Any way there is an accept ion for some people who naturally moody,
hot tapered, soft, cruel, kind.
Love in general is a commitment,
obligation and is action one can choose to love or not
Love is an action, its what we
do, it’s doing kind deeds and kind words being concerned. Love is giving,
sacrificing, and forgiveness. Means going an extra mile where other would have
given up. One can not say l lost love for him, you can love at all times, at
all costs. With love all is possible and nothing can stand in its way. It’s
beautiful to be loved and it becomes great when it’s all returned to you.
Love does not obey any principle,
class, standards and doesn’t have a rate.
Though there are some common
ideologies in it that one has to obey to make it smoother. Things like faithfulness,
trust endurance, patience, forgiveness and forgetting, caring and can be
enhanced by sweet promises. With all this, one becomes a world heavy weight
love champion, a super star who is self made. Though there is a saying which
says it is two way traffic, but there is no boundaries or limits for it. You can
decide from today love your own style and become a love emperor and there is
always a room at the top.