Site articles of relationships - ParPerfeito
I have been looked for for professional psychologists and of the communication area that is studying and carrying through academic works on sites of relationships, virtual relationships, virtual sex. They desire to take off doubts, to better understand this media, as he is used, the results etc. from my practical experience here in the ParPerfeito, guiding and clarifying doubts of users.
I would say that the sampling of the addressed letters to the "Thaïs Responde" she is not valid to evaluate the results gotten for the majority of the people who frequent the site. If he cannot simplify this type of experience and we know that all linear reasoning is dangerous. To take off conclusions for half dozen of letters where men and women if complain because its contacts do not have continuation would be precipitated, a time that the majority of the users still does not appeal to this page.
We are not ahead of a on phenomenon to sciences "exatas" e, yes, ahead of the complexity of the relations human beings, social. It is a great full universe of singularidades, what it guarantees the singularity of the gotten results.
If it cannot say that the people who look a site of relationships have a basic characteristic necessarily in common. At the same time, we could compare a site of this type with a ball of masks, as the ones that existed old. The people were not identified with easiness and felt themselves more to the will to play of "faz of conta", behaving of bolder form.
The difference, here, is that some use the mask not to be identified, behaving of inconvenient form; others, to "fazer of conta" e to live "como se": se" "Vou to appear "como; he was a rich, pretty, seductive man, even so is not nor obtains to be nothing of this in the reality. They exist, still, those that do not use mask some and if they present as of fact they are: ones for naivety, others for autoconfiança.
The ones exist that, thinking to occult behind one "nick " e given false, if discloses, however, for the reasoning that desvelam to if expressing for writing and the proper way to write. The cultural and educational level of the person almost always escapes its control in a contact on line. If a person writes with many errors of Portuguese, does not advance: it does not go to obtain to convince nobody of that she is a cultured person, who had a performed with care education and/or a formation. Intelligence can be disfarçada (is possible to become to pass for silly), but it does not lack it of it. The good intentions and the sincerity only can be apparent, as much how much it occurs in a conviviality of years... Many people have obtained what they desire in a site as the ParPerfeito. Such as in the life, is, in general, most experienced, less unsafest, the most intent and the ones that know what they want. The naivety is a characteristic that intervenes of negative form with the attainment of good results (to make friends, to conquer boyfriends, for example) and nothing it has to see with the sincerity; quite to the contrary! A person can be sincere for naivety, that is, in situations where she would not have to be. Others are sincere saying what they think of itself and counting its experiences, but according to way as they had interpreted them or they understood exactly, what implies the possibility to be passing to the other, without wanting, false data.
People very restrained and fearful leave to run fully controlable risks, restricting, with this, the possibility to know other people better. They feel fear of if becoming attached the wrong people. "erro", however, she can be nelas, for if becoming attached indiscriminately and immediately to a stranger, many times before the first meeting, either for neurosis or lack. The sites of relationship if perfect, of the point of view technician, more quickly of the one than the ideas of the people its respect. Muitosacreditam thatto enroll itself in this type of site, is necessary that the person does not have qualities or ability to obtain somebody for other ways. People conservatives, who cost to assimilate "novo", they insist on exploring this space as a territory unprovided of law, as pichadores that act during the dawn, or as children, who far make bagunça of the eyes of the professor. As much this is truth, that many are envergonham to show its photos, therefore fears to be confused e, with this, criticized for that they know them. Already they had said here: "Vão to say that I am so underneath that I arrived at the point to enter in a site of relationships to obtain to find one companheira".