It is very difficult to define because there is no word that translates
totally extraordinary nature and intensity
of the feelings aroused by
falling in love. The continuous succession of confused emotions,
produces confusion and anxiety, which are accompanied by anxiety,
desire and happiness. Why we knew? Love is one of the basic needs of man. Just as one can not live without food, without water or relentlessly.
Like any other significant moment of life, love comes as unconscious
desire, which slowly opens way, prepare and predisponiendo interiorly
to the person. To arrive at a relationship it is necessary to
complete this process of maturation staff that leads to separation.
Only then will have reached an identity to permit identification with
the other, being aware of one''s own limits. Why love is transformed into love.
The dating game is so natural its transformation into love. The passage
of love to love is a delicate moment which views the new partnership as
part of the reality, in which the intensity of the emotions is diluted
and cooled, but there is also more profound: the extraordinary becomes
routine , acquiring however normalcy in a more authentic flavor, as it
transforms the interim in a project of life in common, certainly not so
full of emotions disconcerting, but with greater assurance of stability
and durability. PRIVACY AND ITS ORIGIN Until a few
years ago the concept of privacy was closely linked to sexuality and
the tangible nature of love. However, the current concept expands its
limits, recognizing in this regard a expressiveness
emotional,
intellectual and spiritual. The roots of privacy are profound. A
child who has been able to establish, from his early experience, a
relationship affective satisfactory, you know where adult maintain free
and creative relations with another person in privacy. If, on the
contrary, in their development, the individual has been found to
communicate their needs with a response malsonante, if only because of
misunderstandings affective, will be obliged to defend themselves,
thereby depriving the possibility of an emotional exchange privileged. Intimacy: How the living men and women.
Traditionally, the role of man has been synonymous with power and
authority, both in public and in private. It seems as if the man was
not allowed to openly express their emotions, as they do deviate too
much from this model of manhood and efficiency has revolved around
which their education as a child. Despite the new models proposed, it
remains the basic behavior of men from the emotional point of view,
just as the role of women par excellence remains to care for children,
despite its entry into the world of work and more likely to be exposed
in the field affective. However, under the mask of indifference and strength, there is also the man in a deep need and search for intimacy.
The feminist movement and the subsequent sexual freedom returned to the
affectivity their dignity and privacy, shifting attention from outside
to inside, from the surface to the depth of the societal private. THE EROTISMO
The sexual encounter plays an important role erotic component, which in
humans is deployed with greater intensity in the realm of the senses,
whereas women more often requires a complaint additional never wholly
unrelated to the registry sentimental. It has always been told
that. In the case of men, the image of a naked woman can be enough to
motivate them to and excitarle, while a woman can apasionarse more in
situations where there is greater emotional involvement.
Different are the dreams and fantasies that produce erotic arousal of
men and women, just as it is different behavior during the sexual
experience, and that the interest of the man focuses on the physical
character of the act, while the the woman can not dispense with the
need for tenderness, which extends and lasts once satisfied the sex
drive. The woman plays adirects his seduction for enamorar,
does not conform with the sexual act, but to leave a permanent imprint
that lasts not only as a memory but as I wish to be continually
renewed. The woman, in her seduction, uses the perfume, cream, choose
carefully clothes, hairstyle and makeup that he favoured such care and
extends also to his home, the objects that adorn and flowers that
adorn. Men, by contrast, is rarely devote as much attention to
preparing for the meeting and the invitation does not confer general
importance to these details. We may conclude by saying that men
and women have different sensitivity, and their fantasies and desires
are different, which often leads to misunderstandings, incomprehension
and dislikes. This does not however exclude the possibility of a
meeting, an exchange of understanding which, in any way, always happy
existence and the rich.