Can you really recognize the thing and know when someone really loves, and when it is also truly loved? The need is so basic affection ''predominant in all of us that the act of love is unconsciously motivated by the desire or the need to be loved. One element narcisístico exists in all relationships of love. Physically demonstrate what we want the other person to do so. The love in its best sense is reciprocal. We are all born with the instinct to love, to enjoy the gift of life. The love in its broadest sense is the love of life itself, to live and survive. This kind of love does not depend on people, circumstances, but only for ourselves, it is an entity''s own love. It is a source of strength that makes the pain bearable physical and mental anguish tolerable. A true love for life is the first prerequisite, for the love that must exist between a man and a woman. When each understands the real meaning of love has a good relationship with family, friends and associates. Both are at peace with his world and his God. They are tormented by conflicts. Without this basic love and healthy for life, love romantic becomes weak. After the wedding, small fights, jealous, financial difficulties, diseases, all sorts of insecurity spouses put in the position of blaming each other, the temporary attraction which is believed to be love esboroa under the force of the first impact. The True Love is the Practical Even Time and Idealista In marriage, two people based their union a genuine love, are tolerant of the weaknesses of each. The struggle for a true love affinity ideal, because that is living in the best sense of the word, and practical, however, gives rise when the failures of each. Sometimes we are surprised to learn of the disruption of a marriage that seemed perfect. "It is difficult to understand.
Were so passionate, not incomodavam with anyone. Gave not a step not to be together." The "perfect couple" is not truly loved. Agarrava if neuroticamente each other. One depended on the other for support an ego doubtful and to protect itself from the fear of life. The first suggestion that one spouse is not living in accordance with a perfect 100 percent is an unbearable shock to the next. "How this can happen to me, to us?" When two people know the true meaning of love does not irritate the partner because of its failures. There are a bad mood, and not turn away for him, why not turn away for life in general when it ceases to fulfil their ideals. The true love is not possessive. It''s like Dr. Harry Overstreet wrote, "The love of one person does not mean in possession of such person, but in his statement. Means happily give him the right to full and unique human being. Ni possession of a person truly love and also for escravizá it, through law or the handcuffs dependence. " Knowing the real meaning of love also in safeguarding against a self-sacrifice abnormal. The love is very normal part of our love for life. It is normal import up with himself enough to want food is good, feel good, have good appearance and enjoy what the civilization offers within a life of progress. -- The normal love itself is actually a respect for yourself. Without this love the man or the woman takes up weak or masoquista, giving rise to martyrdom.