Normally you feel there are so many out there who wants to harm you. You feel that whatever you do, these
‘enemies’ will say bad about you, try to harm you or see that you fail everywhere.
But who is your real enemy?
The one whom you consider your enemy is your real enemy. You do not believe?
Your enmity and hostility is understood by your adversary.
Your internal communications, body physiology, thoughts and attitudes convey enmity.
They are easily picked up by the subconscious mind of your so-called enemy. As a result, he will feel hostility towards you. And, he starts behaving to you in a hostile way. This, in turn, is picked up by your subconscious mind and you become more inimical. It is a vicious cycle.
Irrespective what the other one shows or behaves if you forgive him
sincerely and make up with him
mentally and see him as a friend in your mind and shake hands with him/her sincerely, and assume a friendly body language, he will soon become your friend.
If you keep enmity in your mind and show enmity in your face or body language, nothing you say or do outwardly will matter. Hw ill continue to be your enemy.
On the other hand if you take him as a friend both in mind and body after mentally patching up with him/her he will be your friend very soon.