In order to make a big step in your life you will need lots of preparations and time, or may be this is the way
we use to fool ourselves to keep waiting and waiting for
changes to be done alone without any interference from our side, this is the way that relaxes our minds and gives us the great alibi of waiting for things to happen although we all know any change needs not only a first step but also a full process in order to be fulfilled.
No need to rush, you need to take your time; you need to make your plan and be prepared for any possibilities, and it took you forever to move or to think.
It is like a bug that runs into our systems always pushing us to delay things for a better time, pushing us from being decisive in our lives into hesitation and disorientation.
In order to make a successful change you must hold it for a while and let it go in the right time and the right place, we can’t deny the truth in this sentence but it was meant for short term plans and not long term ones.
A change is due to a combination of several factors and not only one variable in life as some of us think and it can’t be more of a truth, it is a combination of the will, the desire, the aim for better life and the capabilities to do so in a certain time and place.
The difference between the thought of a needed change and the plan of this change and finally the beginning of the changing process must be very short in order not to loose any of the changing factors engines and interests, any delay can cause a denial, and the change or the step needed will remain as a forgotten thought or an unfulfilled wish.
And believe me it could be easily transformed from a need of change to a far wish.
So instead of waiting lets begin with small steps, small movements toward your aim, a day by day much time for this change, a growing thought in the mind, something that could help in the changing process even if it seams insignificant.
Never thought of a better way to make a change but it works it really do, with a little of hope and believes, with a small push from your beloved ones and with your own will you can change your life, you can fight harder to get what you want, you can move toward your aim even if it seams far away.
In the end you will discover that this fighting, loosing and winning life was just your way, your role, your destiny and this time at least you know it is the destiny you choose for yourself, you didn’t wait for dreams to come true you moved to your dreams, you pushed your life toward the path you desire and what ever the result that you get you will be satisfied, it is at least your choices and not someone else’s dreams and change wishes.