Is Dating for fun or life An exhilarating experience when you know the other person. May it be male, female of any community ? We feel like interacting, speaking to each other, feeling for each other, chat for fun , advice, share experience, know them , know one-self to explore the potential, hidden strengths , weaknesses, find common tastes, glorify physical,mental,spiritual beauties, adore and get adored. It is true enthusiasm drives us all, age is never a barrier. Enthusiasm of relationship, venture, friendship, intimacy, learning and achievement. Let us find our friends, see if you can partner one of them for life. Come on take responsibility if you are one. Be responsible for your decision. Or simply enjoy interaction with friends. Being sincere and expecting the other one to be sincere is again a trait. It may not be true for all. One may not be sincere, still want the other person to be one. Sincerity begets sincerity. It has to begin. It might fetch you equal response. At the same time, there are lot of factors which govern this element and its presence. Like one may be genetically not true to even oneself. How can one be true to others? It looks logical. But often seen that lovers are not true to themselves. They simply get fascinated and continue to enjoy that process. They may really be not interested that the relationship turns serious like marriage. However relationship for fun , pleasure, and association gets continued with sincerity. Sincerity to individuals and to purpose- both seem different things.
One`s purpose is fun and pleasure and dating is for that purpose only. If the purpose is long term relationship, evolving the same for creating family-it is often seen that men and women, both are particular about choosing their life partner carefully. Compatibility is impotant.HOWSOEVER SPIRITUALLY ORIENTED ONE MAY BE, some criteria are required to be kept in view for stepping into relationship. Every body wants long lasting relationship, if that is possible. However, where fascination, physical relations are an outcome of simple physical or mental need and becoming calculative may be difficult, even not found essential, it turns into marriage and often not found stable unless compromised. I recall, one of my friends said, marriage is not important for me. Of course fun and pleasure are vital after long working hours. After sometime, he mentioned- being surprised to see married couples enjoying, fighting but continuing. So the whole question is if one has that need for evolving a union on long term basis or just pass time. The entire societies world over have recognized need for creating institution like family through marriage, probably to reduce and control chaos. I solicit comments.