social interaction -the way you converse act and react to people is something a person learns from his parents , learns at
home because they r the 1s he observes and is in turn observed by them with appropriate correctiv measures put into place whenever a parent feels that the child is behaving inappropriately .
But as we grow older this
supervision ceases , or reduces manifold in its intensity because after all the person concerned has grown up and knows the rules of society.
ven a person like pravin mahajan shooots his own brother in rage , it basically shows that somewhere the family , which was supposed to supervise the
behaviour of a person facing severe stress and help him emotionally 2 overcome it has failed to do so. or it has failed to realize tht the person concerned needs medical help 2 overcome the stressful situation ,needs medical help to control his thought processes ,the rage reaction which is consuming him and which culminates in a releASE reaction which mightb as catastrophic as 3 bullets in the abdomen .
there is a strong need for preventive counselling , for the need to realize that the adult too needs supervision, constant supervision , that the family needs to b vigilant towards the behaviour of its members , that even adults need to be corrected and reinstructed about the behaviour that is expected of him/her. if the familymembers feel that their own efforts are not bringing desired results then medical help has to b sought and all this has to b done b4 the person concerned hurts himself or sm1 els . so this brings us to the concept of preventive counselling . the need 2 recognize tht a person in the family is suffering mentally and has to b helped out of his misery.
there needs to b more social awareness , tht the problem within a family ,can have repurcussions for the whole society , that if the family is unable 2 recognize abnormal behaviour , is unable/unwilling to help then its the neighbour the friend who has to take initiative and make sure that the person concerned gets the attention and care he is in need of .
Lets hope that pramod mahajan lives and survives and thrives , that a young politician of india is able to do what he wanted 2 do for the country , that this situation between brothers ends in reconciliation and repentance and not tragedy , and it should most importantly serve as a wake up call to the society , that it needs 2 look after every1 who is a part of it, the family , the friend the neighbour have 2 b vigilant and have 2 help even ven they r not asked to . a "family matter" cannot b left fr the family 2 solve it bcos our lives r intertwined, v all suffer,the society suffers.in terms of productivity in terms of emotional trauma generated by the incident , which is transferred to the nxt person , the next victim of stress.