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Shvoong Home>Arts & Humanities>Message To The Husband Summary

Message To The Husband

Article Summary   by:ivandem     Original Author: sefrizal
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This abstract was translated from PESAN UNTUK PARA SUAMI
 
If there is a heaven on earth it is a happy home, a household filled with a sense of security, peace and mercy. And when there''s hell on earth is destroyed household, husband and wife blame, suspicion, not love each other and away from a sense of security, peace and mercy. As we remember the apostle says that the world''s best jewelry is sholihah wife. That will make our homes like a paradise, baiti Jannati. Since marriage is, from now until the end of your life, God willing, your wife will be a partner, partner and best friend. With he, you share a variety of events, days and years spent together. You shared with him was like, grief, dreams, hopes and anxieties. When you are sick, he shall take care, when you need help he will strive all he can do for you. When you share a secret to him, he would keep it a secret trust, when you need advice, she will give the best advice. And he will always be with you. When I woke in the morning, the first one you see is her eyes. He will always be with you, and if at one time he was not there at your side, then he is with you emotionally. He was thinking, praying with all my heart for your kindness, and you have in mind, prayers and hearts. When you sleep at night, the last thing you see is him, and when you dream, you will see in your dreams. You''re the world and he''s yours. God reminded the people who look for His existence that one of the signs of His power is that he makes sense of love and affection. But the human heart is not something static, but very dynamic. Feelings can change at any time. And love to fly and disappear. The marriage bond can be weakened if not maintained properly and happiness in the household could not be guaranteed to continue. Need the efforts of both sides of husband and wife to each other to love and sustain them. Like a tree, the soil needs to be treated, protected and nurtured. Therefore, here''s a little message of the husband;
In our world, we live in a hectic and tiring life surrounded by a variety of schedules and deadlines. For couples, this means you probably do not get to spend some time together and being alone in the midst of busy work and commitment to duty. You do not let this happen again and again. Try now and then you take the time to conduct periodic activity with your wife. Remember the apostle also never take the time to run a race with Ayesha ra Out with the wife as often as possible, doing activities together, visit with friends, picnic or just shopping at the mall together. Always keep the romance in your relationship. Modern life is almost turning us into robots or high-tech machines with no emotion. Show emotions and feelings that you feel the need to keep the inevitable marriage of rust, decay.
As the apostle said to show his love and affection for our beloved brother, "Tell him that you love your brother," a hadith to show love of friend for ukhuwah bond. Moreover if our wives are bound by a sacred bond of marriage, let it be known. Do not underestimate the important things that seem small, such as carrying groceries, massaged her shoulders or open the car door and so on. Remember that the apostle had to provide his legs to help her rise to the top of a camel. Try to make time with the wife''s prayer. Strengthen your relationship with God is the best guarantee that your marriage will always be strongly maintained. Feel the closeness and peace in your relationship with God will be implied in your relationship with the wife at home. Remember how the apostle gives a very great appreciation for those couples who wake at night for evening prayers together or a wife / husband who woke her partner for the evening prayer even to sprinkle water on the face of her partner. Do your best to be the best for his wife with words and with deeds. Talk to him well, smile at him, asking his advice, ask for his opinion, and spend some quality time with her and always remember that the apostle said: "The best among you is the best treat their wives". Is a normal thing that happens when the couple promised to love and respect your wife / husband until death parted them. I believe that this promise is good and very good. But this is not enough. You have to love what you loved your wife. Family, and the things he loved to be love you anyway. Not enough love her till death anyway. Love can not die, and we believe that there is life hereafter, life after death. And God willing, will be met in the Hereafter. As the apostle loved his wife Khadijah who had accompanied him for 25 years, he continued to love and remember Khadijah. After Khadijah''s death a few years ago, the prophet never forget it even relatives and friends of Khadija that he preferred to make Ayesha jealous sometimes. Love your wife, and what he loved. Love it not just until death but until you are gathered together in the Hereafter.
Published: April 12, 2012   
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